Mysore: Man Holds Love-struck Daughter Captive for 8 Months


Mysore: Man Holds Love-struck Daughter Captive for 8 Months
 
Daijiworld Media Network – Mysore (VM)
 
Mysore, Sep 30:
In a shocking incident, an 18-year-old girl was found to be kept under house arrest for eight months by her father. Her 'crime' - she fell in love with a boy.
 
The incident was reported in Udaygiri police station limits.


 
Samira Begum (18), a resident of Satyanagar was chained by her father Apsar Pasha, a welder by profession.
 
Apsar Paasha had allegedly tied his daughter's legs with an iron chain and kept her in a small room. Pasha has five daughters and three sons, among whom Samira is the third child.
Being a girl, she was not lucky enough to go to school, and used to go to a nearby Madrasa.
 
Meanwhile, she started liking Mujeedin, son of the Madrasa Arabic teacher. Their relationship continued for long time and Apsar Paasha was against it.
 
Even after several warnings by Pasha, the affair continued, and for this reason Pasha held his daughter captive for about eight months.
 
Food and other necessities were provided to her in her room. She used to pass time sewing clothes.
 
Meanwhile, Mujeedin with the help of Samira’s brother sneeked in a phone to her. In this way, their interaction resumed.
 
As soon as Mujeedin came to know that she was held captive in a room, he contacted Udaygiri police station.
 
When the police entered the house, they found Samira tied in the small room and rescued her.
 
Police arrested Apsar Pasha and produced him in the court. He was later released on bail and Samira was sent home with her mother.

  

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  • A.pinto, Mangalore

    Mon, Oct 01 2012

    BANDU MAM
    YUNUS BHAI GONE TO EAT
    MADMAY DA BIRYANI
    HE DOES NOT LIKE DOSA.
    Shadi Mubarak

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  • R.Bhandarkar., M

    Mon, Oct 01 2012

    Yunus bhai -Riyadh.
    Yeh Kaisi Googly bhai?Something
    like 'Case Pussukaa-Anne Ullai?'
    ...!!

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  • Sachidanand Shetty, Mundkur/Dubai

    Mon, Oct 01 2012

    How Parents reacts when they come to know that their children fall in love. Most of the time, at our Coastal Area and Kerala, Muslim Youth marries Hindu girls and convert them before they get marry which is widely accepted by Muslim Community. When their own Daughters fall in love with others means they will take out another set of Community Law which is prohibiting marriage outside their community.

    Forget about the outside community, here in this case she loves boy from same community yet her father has problem to accept the same. What will Police do now? If they arrest and put him behind bar means, other children will end up starving or they have to go for manual job means they have to skip their education. Only way left out for this wise Father that he has to arrange her marriage with this boy and close the chapter forever.

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  • Jacobnelson, Bejai/Mangalore

    Mon, Oct 01 2012

    Manually prohibitting is olden methed the Father used as per his idea.

    In those olden days if one has not paid the telephone bill then line man has to climb the pole to disconnecthe line.

    But in present senario line can be disconnected form system itself.
    No need to climb the pole.

    Same way parents too should learn how to tackle the things with latest method without using olden out dated methods.

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  • Roshan Braganza, Udyavar / Mumbai

    Mon, Oct 01 2012

    Parents job is to take care of children , once they are grown they r unto themselves . Parents can only guide , but decision left to them . In india marriage laws r not secular , in the above case girl can get marry if she reached puberty ( say 15 ) , even court can grant special permission as happened with delhi girl , couple of months back. Parents cannot force , court should only take consent from girl .

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Mon, Oct 01 2012

    Dear Readers, I have a small copy-paste here, further news from what you have read : Quote MYSORE: Sameera, the teenager who was chained for eight months allegedly by her father, got married to her lover Masuddin here on Sunday. Sameera''s father Afsar Pashahad allegedly kept his teen daughter chained at their Sathyanagar house here for the past eight months. The boy, who was in love with her, informed the police. The police raided the house and arrested Afsar. He was released on bail later. The boy, a mechanic, has been in love with Sameera for the past two years. About eight months ago, jurisdiction police warned the boy against meeting Sameera, who was then a minor. Ever since, the girl was confined to the house. However, she kept meeting Masuddin at family functions. The community leaders on Sunday decided to get them married, much to the opposition of the girl''s family. However, the family was convinced later and the wedding went on as per rituals. Unquote Lets get on with our own business now, let the newly married be happy and be part of a society of coexisting.

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  • Haris K.H, Kumbra, Puttur, Muscat

    Mon, Oct 01 2012

    ಮೈಸೂರು: ಪ್ರೀತಿ ಮಾಡಿದ ತಪ್ಪಿಗೆ ತಂದೆಯಿಂದ ಕಾಲಿಗೆ ಕಬ್ಬಿಣದ ಸರಪಳಿಯಿಂದ ಕಟ್ಟಿ ಹಾಕಿಸಿಕೊಂಡಿದ್ದ ಸಮೀರಾ ಕೊನೆಗೂ ತನ್ನ ಪ್ರಿಯತಮ ಮೊಹಮ್ಮದ್ ವಜೀದ್ ಎಂಬವರನ್ನು ಭಾನುವಾರ ವಿವಾಹ ಆಗಿದ್ದಾರೆ.ಮಾಜಿ ಮೇಯರ್ ಅಯೂಬ್ ಖಾನ್ ಅವರ ನೇತೃತ್ವದಲ್ಲಿ ಬಿಲಾಲ್ ಮಸೀದಿಯಲ್ಲಿ ವಿವಾಹ ನೆರವೇರಿದೆ.

    ಸಮೀರಾ ಪೋಷಕರು ಮದುವೆಗೆ ಬಂದಿರಲಿಲ್ಲ.

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  • Yunus, Riyadh/Manglore

    Mon, Oct 01 2012

    FATHER IS KIND TO BE CRUEL

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Mon, Oct 01 2012

    Dear Readers,

    I have a small copy-paste here, further news from what you have read :

    Quote
    MYSORE: Sameera, the teenager who was chained for eight months allegedly by her father, got married to her lover Masuddin here on Sunday.

    Sameera's father Afsar Pashahad allegedly kept his teen daughter chained at their Sathyanagar house here for the past eight months. The boy, who was in love with her, informed the police. The police raided the house and arrested Afsar. He was released on bail later.

    The boy, a mechanic, has been in love with Sameera for the past two years. About eight months ago, jurisdiction police warned the boy against meeting Sameera, who was then a minor. Ever since, the girl was confined to the house. However, she kept meeting Masuddin at family functions.

    The community leaders on Sunday decided to get them married, much to the opposition of the girl's family. However, the family was convinced later and the wedding went on as per rituals.
    Unquote

    Lets get on with our own business now, let the newly married be happy and be part of a society of coexisting.

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  • R.Bhandarkar., M

    Mon, Oct 01 2012

    Dear Asha.P.
    Yes there are holes in 'Dosas'of everyone's house. The problem is some are Big and some are Small!
    'Saglyaanche Gharache Polyanth 'Domplo'
    'Thodaya Gharaani 'Laan'
    'Thodaya Gharrani 'Hodlo'
    Nai Go/ Sath Saang-go'Pinto'!
    Theecho Boppai Maathr Ale Kaam korn Paapanth Budlo..!

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  • ads, canada

    Mon, Oct 01 2012

    Naveen Poojary, Udupi your comments are very commandable and one has to learn from your power of wisdom to tell the people who has no understanding about love, peace and happinesss. Good comments. Please keep it up. As you said freedom of human has taken away by this father. House arrest for what. The girls is matured let her make a decision of her life with propoer care. Misunderstanding of love, and old ways of thinking belief one has to face these house arrest for no reasons.

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  • Naveen Poojary, Udupi

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Its a Really Condemnable act by the father. Love or Infatuation at the age of a common issue which has to be handled in a better way by parents. House arresting will only harm the teen more mentally and this will lead to greater problem in future.

    @rakesh Shetty i want to respond to u about Indian Culture. People like u with nonsensical thoughts and mindset is spoiling India and Its culture. falling love has nothing to do with culture of any nation, Its a bond of heart. even the Most Respectful Freedom fighter like Prithvi Raj Chauhan also was in love even before the so called Western Culture entered India and there are many such examples. Love doesn't have anything to do with culture or religion.

    Valentine Day is Celebration of Love and if people dont understand the meaning we can blame day. Its not Day to have sex, sell condoms etc like any youth and most elders think, Its to celebrate St Valentine's sacrifice for Love. There is a limit for everything and the father here has done a crime which is punishable under law too.

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  • Anitha D'souza, Pangla/Shankerpura

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    God has saved her otherwise she would have mentally ill.What type of punishment by a heartless father???

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  • Roshan Braganza, Udyavar / Mumbai

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    i quote the recent declaration by highcourt " muslim girl can marry once she reaches puberty ( say 15) Even without parents consent . It was the special permission by court. Parents job is to give their best for children , once they grow , they r unto themselves.

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  • Angelisa, India

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Thats unfair for his daughter.At least he could've sent her to another country.

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  • George Cruz, Mangalore

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    I don't blame the parents for protecting their loved ones. The lady should try to get real education and get a degree. Once she has education she can get job and be independent of her parents.

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  • varun, mangalore

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    He should be jailed. what a barbarian he is. And for those, who are saying, he is her father and he knows best for her and all that, children are not parents asset. You decided to bring them to the world. So taking care of them when they are young is not a favour, its your freaking responsibility.

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  • GERALD, modankap-bantval

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    HE IS HER FATHER IT DOESNT MEAN THAT HE HAVE GOT FULL RIGHT TO PUNISH HER IN THIS WAY OR CONTROL HER !!! CERTAINLY THIS AGE IS VERY TENDER TO CONTROL THE EMOTIONS AND THE MOTHERS ROLE IS VERY IMPORTANT AS A FRIEND TO ADVISE HER DAUGHTER WHAT IS GOOD AND BAD !!!

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  • A. S. Mathew, U.S.A.

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Her father is an animal, and he must be chained to a tree to show the public. How, an innocent girl had to suffer because her father was an animal? There are a lot of animals born to this world with two legs!

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  • M.SHAMEEM ANSARI, BANGALORE

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    APSARA PASHA IS DONE BARBARIC.
    THE PARENTS THOSE IN AUTHORITY MUST BE KIND IN CHILDRENS. THE CHILDRENS ALSO SHOULD NOT DISOBEDIENCE PARENTS COMMANDS. BECOMES CHILDRENS HIGHEST DUTY!

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  • AMAN, MANGALORE/DUBAI

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    yes Mr. Pasha did exceed the limits, but Iam dead against daughters who are born just to spoil thier parents name.they become so selfish in love that they forget thier parents sacrifices.

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  • ASHA.P., Mangalore

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    IN TULU THERE IS A SAYING
    "THERE ARE HOLES IN THE DOSA IN EVERYONE'S HOUSE"
    SOME GET EXPOSED MOST ARE HIDDEN...
    THE LAW WILL TAKE ITS OWN COURSE....
    AND THEN IF SOMETHING UNTOWARD HAD TAKEN PLACE PEOPLE WOULD HAVE FIRST ACCUSED THE FATHER FOR NOT CONTROLING HIS DAUGHTER

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  • HANIF, SHIRVA/SHARJAH

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    SO MANY COMMENTS IN FAVOUR OF & AGAINST, BUT IF FATHER LOOKED AFTER HER LAST 18 YEARS, HE WILL PLAN HER FUTURE TOO... WHO ARE US TO DECIDE, WE SEE BOTH EXAMPLES OF FAILURE IN LOVE MARRIAGE AS WELL AS ARRANGED MARRIAGES, FINALLY ITS ALL FATE IS THE ULTIMATE DECIDER.

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  • Shabir A., Mangalore

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    @Rakesh shetty, mangalore

    This time I agree with your comments even though not completely!

    She invited the trouble... as per the report, she was warned several time. I am sure she was not 18 by the time the incident took place.
    Children are not sent to school / madarasa to love. In case if they liked each other, why didnt they approach their parents.

    If parents can bring up their children we to that age, they can also find a better life partner for them.

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  • Mangalorean, Kudla

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Sitting down and having a talk at the table would have sorted out the problem!!!Punishing like this is just being Callous...

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  • Abdu , Oman

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Dears,
    Every one having right to comment , but before that we have to know the fact . May be that person having good image over there in his native place .He don't want to spoil because of his daughter. If he having that, if we are in his place we will do the same to save our image may be the way is different(the way he ed was wrong). So before writing comment it's better to find the fact.Every father's are thinking a bright future for their children. Imagine because of his daughter he was arrested & produced to court, leave it we will not understand.

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  • Abubakar Pallipadi, Pallipadi / Riyadh

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Beautiful daughter!!! helpless father!!! If this will happenned in the commentors home what action should they will take??? Some positive comments have published. Good to read.

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  • Francis Sequeira, Dubai

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    As long as Uncivilized men like Mr. Pasha exist in India , our nation will never be a free country. Mr. Pasha should be chained for next 08 months without food then he will realize the importance of freedom.

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  • Manohar, Mangalore / Kuwait

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Friends, stop commenting nonsense.

    If Rama Sena brothers can save their sisters by molesting them, why not a caring father can save his daughter by house arrest?

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  • vashal, Mangalore

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Poor Father of the girl.He tried his way.But todays civilized world it is not the case.The best thing is Girl should have thought & take a Consent with parents & Love is not always blind.

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  • Aadil Khan, Kasaragod, Saudi Arabia

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Mr. Shankar, your point is very much noteworthy.

    Agreed, Mr. Pasha's action is quite condemnable and one has no right to shackle a human within the four walls of the room. It is a punishable crime.

    However, parents are not the enemy and they always look for the best for their kids. Young minds usually are not decisive about the right choice of life partners and a mistake would lead to a catastrophe in their life. The father's objection to the affair could be that the boy may not be compatible to Samira Begum, in terms of job, family background, financial viability and above all the social status. Having said, Pasha should have opted for a meeting in the community to resolve the issue amicably instead of nailing the girl to isolation.

    Hope peace prevails.

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  • Rakesh shetty, mangalore

    Sun, Sep 30 2012


    I AM AGREE WITH shankar, kundapur.

    FATHER DOING RIGHT THING FOR HER DAUGHTER. NOTHING WRONG IN THIS.

    THIS WESTERN CULTURE ACTIVITY MUST BE BAND. NOW LIKE THIS CASES ARE REDUCED BECAUSE OF SOCIAL GROUPS.

    VALENTINS DAY MUST BE BAN IN INDIA. THIS IS THE REASON NOW SHE IS FACING PUNISHMENT. EACH AND EVERYONE MUST FOLLOW INDIAN CULTURE IN INDIA. JAI HO.

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  • Lavin Noronha, Paladka/Bahrain

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    @asmath, sharjah, Just by being a father he is not owning her. It is her right to live freely, just imagine your parents chaining you for 8 months man. Being a resposible father he should have settled this matter sitting across a table. He has no right to violate others human right.

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Ismai bhai hats off, nice comments...keep it up!!

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  • Subhash Pai, Mangalore

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Here her brother too helpe the Boy to handover the Mobile phone means, there should have been an amicable settlement. Father is bit harsh here. I think they should sit across the table and solve this, instead going public.

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  • Sameer, Manipal/Dubai

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Ismail nice one

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  • parvez, mangalore/dxb

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    he is her father lovers can b changed .u cant change your father who knows the carecter of that boy .if that boy realy loved her insted of going to police satation should have gone to het father with his parents .we people whenver ther is a topic start to coment never try to undestan the feeling of our parents love is blind can a parent think bad for children .a lover may have diffrent intension toword the lover but parents just love thier children. i agree father was also was quit hash to his daughter but his intension was just to protect her

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  • chinnu, bangalore

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Now a days in the name of love lust exists more powerful, and certainly it ends in short period.
    so this attitude more in teenagers. It is first to think about primary responsibilities until stand on own life which starts usally after 22 years. before that, blood relation bodn between family members also with parents. if in a teenage starts to love which include lust more, then even though get married with loved one, it lasts for short period for this one thing it will make problems to all including loved one. later rest of life also not moving smoothly. This trend should be changed in teenagers and move in right direction.

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  • ISMAIL.K.PERINJE, PERINJE-YANBU/KSA

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Asmath Sharjah,You may too immature or too child to understand the issue.Her father could be jailed for for certain amount of years for his stupid thing.Inspite of Chaining,did he able to control her?Therefore,it is better to marry her for whom she loved.Fortunately,the 'bridegroom' belongs to his own community otherwise there might be more unwanted thing could have been happened.The father in question chained his daughter like HAIWAN,then just imagine if the otherside should belong another community what could be the fate of his daughter?Therefore,Asamth keep your suggestion in deep freez @ 18'C so that you can use it when you grow up.

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  • Nelson, Mangalore

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    @asmath. We unfortunateky still have backward thinking people like you because of which we see crimes in the society in the name of honour. I wish you could put such thoughts behind and get ahead in life. Whatever you do, the next generation will not be like you are. The world is fast changing. By having such thoughts, you are only pushing your own next generation behind and they will stay behind the others and commit crimes in the name of honor and religion. Wake up to the new world and smell the air and get your mind out of the refrigirator. Thank Goodness there are people like ISMAIL who think like this from that community.

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  • anees, doha

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    if her hand was tied for 8 months using a chain how she used to pass time sweing clothes?

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  • Ramesh, Shetty

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Oh God !!! REAL TALIBAN'S OF INDIA...THERE IS LAW IN STATE? WHAT WE CAN SAY? Jai Ho BJP...?

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  • asmath, sharjah

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Fully agree with Shankar Kundapura.
    Mr. ISMAIL.K.PERINJE, . Please keep your dialogues in refrigerator, may you need this when you are in her father`s position.

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  • SHILPA SHETTY, MANGALORE/DXB

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Mr. Shankar,

    I strongly oppose your STATEMENT as every Father knows!! If this was true there would not have had rape cases on father against their own daughters!!. Whats wrong in falling in love if its true love?? Father should have had checked this first. house arrest is only doen because of their reputation in the society they live.

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  • ISMAIL.K.PERINJE, PERINJE-YANBU/KSA

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Chaining his daughter is not civilised way of keeping in confinement.If they are in deep love,let them marry for that both familieis fecilitate conducive atomoshpere.PYAR ZUKTA NAHI......

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  • afatb, usa

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    dear karim,

    Please be mature b4 give comments.he is her father. he is protecting her for doing any badthings. and he is protecting his/her haya. and even feeding her while he lockd her. he is not harsh to her. he is kind to her since she is her daughter. so its not talibani act. he shows humanity evern he is in anger. But also there is option to him, since majuhid is from same religion he can accept him as soninlaw.

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  • Jeevan Mendis, Srilanka/Kuwait

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    Father loved her daughter, and intention being to rescue her.He has provided food etc during her house arrest. Its fathers love towards his daughter. But the way he took it was wrong and unbeliveable. Steel chain !!! what better can expect from a Welder ?.

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  • shankar, kundapur

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    what they will now ? who checked her age... every father knows what is good and what is bad for his chldren, who knows that guys character ?

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  • Kareem , Bombay /Dubai

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    REAL TALIBANS OF INDIA ,

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  • Agash, Mysore

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    I guess it's better than murder as "honor Killing"

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  • SURESH MAROLI, MANGALORE/BAHRAIN

    Sun, Sep 30 2012

    TIE HIM IN SAME CHAIN FOR 8 MONTHS. THEASE TYPE OF ANIMALS GET BAIL VERY EASILY. WE HAVE TO BLAME OUR LAW SYSTEM. WHERE IS PFI? PROTEST FOR THIS.

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