Udupi: 20-year-old Student Ends Life at Santhekatte


Udupi: 20-year-old Student Ends Life at Santhekatte

Ivan Mascarenhas
Daijiworld Media Network - Udupi

Udupi, Nov 30: A 20-year-old student allegedly committed suicide at Kallianpur here on Friday November 30.

The deceased has been identified as Rakshitha, a final year BSc student of Milagres College, Kallianpur.

She was the daughter of Nithayananda K P and Malathi N, residents of "Nisarga House" Nayampalli, Santhekatte. She was staying with her parents.

She is said to have hanged herself in her room. The incident came to light at around 10.30 am when her parents knocked at her room and got no response.

It is said that Rakshitha was in the habit of locking herself in her room and studying. As usual, on Friday morning she finished her breakfast and went into her room and locked herself up. A little later a friend of Rakshitha's called her parents and asked them to inform her that computer class, which they used to attend, had been cancelled for the day.

When Rakshitha's parents knocked on her room to convey the message, they did not get any response. Worried, they looked through the window of her room and found her hanging.

The reason for taking the extreme step is not yet known. Police have taken her mobile phone into possession to investigate further.

Police have registered a case.

  

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  • cyril mathias, udupi

    Mon, Dec 03 2012

    She was one of the most talented students in the college.May her soul rest in peace,my god give her parents enough strength to face the loss.

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  • Peter Pereira, Pune

    Mon, Dec 03 2012

    Matured comments Mr. Nagesh Nayak. Keep it up. May Rakshita's soul rest in peace.

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  • Brian Charles D'souza, UAE/Mangalore

    Mon, Dec 03 2012

    Its indeed surprising that Rakshita hanged herself, how come the problems solve? Suicide is not the solution, it shows that when a person dont have the daring then only such steps are taken. God has given us life to live, so not all the days one will find joy, each day is different, each circumstance is different, each one of us are different, so better live and not end life. Only God has the right to take our life. May her soul rest in peace

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  • abdul sattar habiballah, Belapu/Jeddah/ Saudia

    Sun, Dec 02 2012

    Itteda kalada javanerg ballu getandunu mamooli aatundu, adara karna dani pand yerla aita pira boorujer. Eet kaltina jookul ee reeti jeeva gepponi appe ammeg poora kutumbag boord poopini yedde att. Devere ee jookuleg buddhi korle doomb aandala anu graha sikkodu pand yanna abhi praya.

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  • rita lasrado Germany, omzoor/Germany

    Sun, Dec 02 2012

    very sad to hear almost everyday young mostly girls end their life.leaving behind parents freinds and lovedones in darkness neverknowing the reason. so its time someone do something. our comments dont bring them back so atleast for the future generation to avoid such incidents it is better in colleges schools etc.social workers or some gatherings to arrange and advice students parents about such dangers or install some anonymous telephons where these people call and ask advice ortell their situation without telling their name.it helps here in western countries so in India also will certainly help. whereas in India young girls still live with parents and they are affraid if they dont bring good marks distinction etc. this should be cleared with parents.and about choosing their life partner is another point .Even religious institutes can help a lot in such cases. hope in future we hear less sueside cases.A pity when parents have to face such situation.

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  • Evans Christopher Sumitra, Udupi/New York, USA

    Sun, Dec 02 2012

    Rakshitha, suicide was not the solution. You being so young you had many roads ahead of you. Just 20 years and you took such an extreme step to bring unhappiness to your parents who took care of you and they had high hopes on you but all is gone in vain. MAY YOUR SOUL REST IN ETERNAL PEACE AND GIVE ALL THE COMFORT TO ALL THE DECEASED FAMILY AND FRIENDS.

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  • christine, manglore/kuwait

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    There Is Trials, Challenges, Everyone Life. This Is We Have To Face For The Better Feature. Old People Also Faced Much. If We Be Patience And Face Small Trials Than Only We Learn Through It To Face Big,
    Now Generation 1 Or 2 Children And In That Someone Do What Will Happen For Parents. Of Course Some Time Parents Stay Strict For Children, That Is Not For Their Own Benefit,For Their Children Good Feature,Career, Because World Is Going Day By Day Hell Way.They Love You And Don’t Want You To Be In Ash Tray.
    You Are Precious In The Sight Of Your Parents, Because They Don’t Show It Than That Is Not Mean That They Don’t Love You. Now You Think Ur Problem Solved, Is There Anything For Who Was Think Your Well Being And Looking Forward Ur Feature.
    Please Youths Before Take Like This Kind Step, Please Don’t Be Hurry, Any Problem You Face,There Is Solution. And Don’t Want Your Parents To Know About It Than, Share With Your Honest Friend May Through That Friend May Get Guidance, Help To Solve.
    Main thing Patience.No Patience than no way.

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  • jessy, abudhabi, udupi

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    Dearest Young children.
    think of your parents who suffered day and night to bring you up.They might have even begged with people for money or influence to admit their children in good colleges. now a days the parents are having one or two children how painful it will be for them? your parents are not policeman or woman. if you have any problem talk to them or your freinds.dont end up ur lives. life is a blessing from god.

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  • Dr. Srinivasan Sampath, Mangalore/Bahrain

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    Oh God, what is happening to our youngsters. May God rest her soul in peace and give enough strength to her parents to control the grief.

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  • Abraham D'Mello, Mumbai

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    Deeply pained. May her soul rest in peace. May God give strength to the parents to undergo this sorrow

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  • rdza, mangalore

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    She must have been going through so much mental stress, else she wouldnt have taken the extreme step. though suicide is a cowardly act, it sure takes a lot of courage to do it. Support from family, friends and proper counselling from an expert would have helped the young lady. Though its modern times, people still think couselling is for 'mad' people and what the others might think if seen at a psychiatrist's clinic! in this modern world of competition/expectations People should be made aware of couselling as a positive aspect from a young age & as a place to seek help when it seems that nothing works.
    Its very sad that with millions of people around, not one could help her live!

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  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Bantwal/Mangalore

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    Some people are more predisposed to suicidal ideation due to genetic factors, certain psychiatric illnesses or drugs which add fuel to the thought of suicide!!

    Now, it has been researched and published that a certain organism found in cats (T Gondi) can increase multifold the chances of the person who has acquired it mostly if when the individual was exposed in the womb through the mother!! This organism is responsible for serious psychiatric illnesses like schizophrenia and others in later age!! Pregnant mothers are therefore strictly advised to stay away from cats at least in the advanced countries!!

    Surprisingly, even animals and birds are reported to commit suicide!!

    It is easy to talk in hindsight,but what actually the poor victim has gone through only she knows!!

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  • GERALD, Modankap

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    SUJITH NAYAK YOU NO NEED TO CALL ANYONE PESUDO AND YOU DONT HAVE RIGHT TO CALL THE SAME. WHICH SHOWS YOUR CULTURE AND MATURITY !!!!

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  • Sujith Nayak, Kudla / AUH

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    RIP......@ Lydia Lobao...You need not worry about Nagesh Maam's maturity...i Guess you should come out of your Pseudo shell and grow up...Nagesh Nayak speaks the truth which is bitter for Pseudos.

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  • geoffrey, hat hill

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    We all agree that the strongest basic instinct of all living beings is to survive, still we the human beings who are the only living beings on planet earth that are blessed with the gift of reason, succumb to suicide at times. It’s easy to label it an act of cowardice, escape from reality etc.. etc. But all said and done, when depression/stress overpowers the survival instinct, all our stress management capabilities get thrown to wind. Spirituality might help overcoming depression in some cases. According to Bible, Peter and Judas both disciples of Christ had denied their master. Peter repented and turned to Jesus and found hope. Judas on the other hand turned his back on Jesus who was his only hope and ended up hanging himself.

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  • Roshal, Bahrain/M'lore

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    People have no right to kill their soul,as it is given by god only he can take it back....if we taking forcefully then we will go to hell...
    as it is given in bible.........

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  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mangalore/Mumbai

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    @Our Nagesh Nayak has given the real picture, hats off to him!! In a nutshell total commercialization of education, endless rat race to be on top, cutthroat competition, excessive materialism, TV, internet, mobiles, and gizmos, lack of social interaction, lack of physical exercise due to over emphasis on studies, peer pressure, absence of values, over ambitious parents pushing children to the edge in order to excel, glorification of only engg. and medical professions, falling tolerance levels, belittling students who are not good at academics/studying by rote!!

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  • Juliet Mascarenhas, Bejai/Mangalore

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    Nagesh Nayak seem to be more matured with the healthy comment .CONGRATS.

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  • Amrutraj, Manipal

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    If People are ready to face Death.... Then they shud have got more power/guts to face Life.... Suicde is useless thing to do.

    RIP Rakshita

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  • Merlyn, Mangalore

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    Dear Rakshitha, i am really sad after reading this. Your soul may rest in peace.
    Now a days what happened in our youngsters? Nobody is ready to face the problem or situation? If we are taking this kind of foolish steps, what will be the feelings of the parents? Did you think about that?
    Why are parents are working, because to give education and support in our every activities. But shameless thinking and behavior of our youngsters... Now who lose ...... you or your parents?
    Dear parents, i am really sorry to say this, because even i am girl child, and i have so many problems but i am trying to face all that situations, i know that, some will not have that much strength within them. I can understand. So please my dearest youngsters please if any difficult situation or problems will comes in your happiest life think twice, share with your parents after that only go ahead and save your precious life. I hope all will agree in my comment... If i am wrong, please let me know......

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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    MOST OF THE READERS ARE IN FAVOUR OF COUNSELLING CENTRES IN EDUCATIONAL INSTITUTIONS/COLLEGES.

    SITUATION WILL NOT IMPROVE SINCE EDUCATION HAS BECOME BUSINESS.

    RELATIONSHIP BETWEEN STUDENTS & TAECHERS IS NOT AS GOOD AS OLDEN DAYS.

    NOWADAYS WE CAN SEE BOTH STUDENT & TEACHER ARE IN LOVE, ARE GOING TO MOVIE TOGETHER .

    THERE IS NO RESPECT FOR THE TEACHERS .

    MONEY IS CRITERIA FOR MOST OF THE EDUCATIONAL INSTITUTIONS.

    IN A NUTSHELL : SUICIDE BY YOUNGSTERS WILL INCREASES & SYSTEMS WILL WORSEN DUE TO IMBALANCES IN EACH FIELDS OF LIFE i.e. IN RELIGION, CASTE,POLITICAL SCENES , SOCIETY & FINANCIAL SYSTEMS.

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  • meena,

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    Whatever is the matter but you have taken foolish decision rakshitha...may your soul RIP

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  • sk, mangalore

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    this is not the solution, end of the life ..

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  • kiran, mangalore

    Sat, Dec 01 2012

    Really a sad incident may her soul rest in peace.
    Parents should keep a tab on what children are doing ....

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    CHE..CHE..

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman/Washington,DC.

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    People,

    Indeed very sad and tragic incident.

    It was very sad, may her soul rest in peace.

    But try to find out real reasons for her action ... so others dont repeat them...latching the door and studying in her own house is strange..perhaps her parents should taken preventive steps to correct any issues proactively.

    Regards,

    Langoolacharya.

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  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mangalore/Mumbai

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    RIP Rakshita!!

    This is the end result of a society which runs on giving kudos and laurels to the materialistically successful!!!

    USING PEOPLE AND ADORING THINGS!!!!!!!

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  • Bulsam, Mangalore

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    All educational institutions should have compulsory counseling centre particularly for the girl students.
    Your child has fared badly in an exam or due to any other reason she is feeling low & down. Normally, parents in such situation either console or scold the child. Instead listen to her and let her vent her feelings. Slowly, remind her to identify what went wrong and make her understand it for herself. The mature way of thinking is to learn from a failure but don't encourage lame excuses.
    The best thing a parent could do is instill in your child a desire to face the challenge and a healthy feeling of competition in life.
    It was very sad, may her soul rest in peace.

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  • BSB, MUMBAI

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    She might have got temporary relief from her problems/s. Only GOD has the right to call back. Hence, she has to come back and pay with interest.

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  • Peter Lewis, Kalmady/K S A

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    This should not happen.very painful incident.Our educational Institutions need to build strong will power to the present generation.

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  • Jimmy Noronha, Bellore, Lucknow

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    Wish I were there to advise her that the time is the best healer. Simply a young life is snuffed out for lack of proper counselling. It's time someone established an institute for counselling such sorrowful souls.

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  • S Bhat, K'pur

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    The role of Social media like Facebook, cannot be ruled out in the recent cases of suicides. In social media people tends to show off with their job, positions, family and lifestyle etc. This will create un-necessary pressures on people who is already struggling/pressurised in life due to various other factors and force them to take extreme steps. There is a strong need to educate people/students to use social media in a responsible and healthy way. I would like to request all our friends not to use social media to show off and use it in a healthy way.

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  • Richard Lobo, Shirva/Bangalore

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    Whoever is reading this (especially youngsters) must understand that, suicide is not a solution of anly kind of problems. Go and discuss wiht your parents, teachers, firends. solution is always there. There is no forgiveness(devine or human) for this act.

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  • Simon M A, Mangalore

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    Nowadays suicide is common trend among youngsters and nobody is coming forward to find a solution for this bloody situation and we need to find out the psychological
    background of it.within few times how many valuable life of educated
    students at their very younger stage had to finish.
    please wake up and try to block this otherwise it will be an epidemic in the cultured society..

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  • Damodar Bhat, Udupi

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    Stress is a big factor attacking youngsters. Too much of hard work and studying / tuitions etc. Today's youngsters just cannot handle it.

    Counselling should be a must for every student and institutions should insist upon it.

    This act by Rakshita was uncalled for. My sympathies to the bereaved parents / family members.

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  • geoffrey, hat hill

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    Another classic example of 'permanent solution to a temporary problem'

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  • Ravi Hemmady, Barkur, Muscat

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    This is ridiculous,what nonsence,is sucide is the only solution for problem?.By doing this she put entire family in mess.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    Nagesh Nayak seems to have grown saner than yesterday. Surprisingly, no mention of Italian nor Western culture being the reason behind Rakshita's suicide.

    Nevertheless, whatever reason may be, Rakshita's soul must rest in peace, no other option left once we die by whatever mode.

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  • Ted, Mangalore

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    RP, Mangalore .r u human ?? 99% of people who commit suicide go through an intense phase of depression and loneliness. I blame her parents, friends, relatives and people around her who were not available to listen to her problems and give her a reason to live.

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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    DISGUSTING TO SEE SUICIDES BY YOUNGSTERS.

    LOVE FAILURE/ FINANCE PROBLEM/STUDY PRESSURE MAY BE THE CAUSE FOR SUICIDE.

    ENVIRONMENT TO LIVE HAPPILY IN INDIA FOR MIDDLE CLASS PEOPLE IS DETIORATING DAY BY DAY DUE TO VARIOUS REASONS.

    MOST OF THE YOUNGSTERS WANT TO COPY HERO & HEROINES WHO LIVE IN POSH HOUSES , WANDER IN POSH CARS, WEAR POSH DRESSES ETC...
    BUT IN REALITY IT IS ENTIRELY DIFFERENT.

    POLITICAL SCENARIO, FINANCE STATUS,
    SOCIAL ATMOSPHERE , STUDY PRESUURE ACCUMULATES & YOUNGSTERS CHOOSE FOR SUICIDE.

    THIS IS DANGEROUS SCENARIO.

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  • RP, Mangalore

    Fri, Nov 30 2012

    Foolish decision.

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