Mangalore: Depressed over causing accident, man commits suicide


Mangalore: Depressed over causing accident, man commits suicide

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Daijiworld Media Network – Mangalore (DV)

Mangalore, Apr 2: In a tragic incident, a man whose car had killed a child in February this year, allegedly committed suicide as he was depressed over the incident.

The deceased has been identified as Valerian Rodrigues (50), whose Innova car had hit and killed a 12-year-old near Kankanady while she was crossing the road. The accident had taken place on February 23.

Even though more than a month had passed after the incident, he could not come to terms with it and was said to be in a state of depression.

It is also learnt that Valerian had recently sold off his property in Koppa, Chikmagalur and come to Mangalore. He  was residing in rented house at Jayashree Gate along with his family. He then purchased a new flat in the same area. The house warming ceremony was held on Sunday March 31.

On Monday April 1, Valerian came back to the rented house saying that he wanted to sleep there. On Tuesday morning,  when his children came in search of their father, they could not find him anywhere.

On searching the premises, they found his footwear near the well, which aroused suspicion that he might have committed suicide. Also, the covering on the well had been partly opened. The fire brigade and police were called, and Valerian's body was fished out.

A case has been registered in the Kankanady police station.

 

  

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  • macklyn d souza, Saudi arabia

    Thu, Apr 04 2013

    Tragedy accident,and shocked may his soul rest in peace .RIP

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  • Naina, Mangalore / USA

    Thu, Apr 04 2013

    Whats goes around comes around with interest.

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  • Leslie fernandes, Brahmagiri, Udupi

    Wed, Apr 03 2013

    DEAR RESPECTED JACOBNELSON,
    THANKS FOR CONSIDERING MY POINT OF VIEW.
    HOWEVER MY EYES GET FILED WITH TEARS WHEN I IMAGINE THAT SITUATION WHEN VALLY FIRST HIT THE CHILD.
    IT WAS NOT A HIGHWAY.
    IT WAS A ORDINARY CIVILIAN ROAD.
    IT WAS 4.1 5 PM.
    I AM ALSO A DRIVER.
    I HAVE EXPERIENCED THIS TYPE OF SHORT SIGHT AMONG DRIVERS EEN IN DUBAI.
    THEY COME SO CLOSE TO YOUR VEHICLE EVEN IN SECOND LANE AND GIVE LIGHT TO MOVE.
    AND MINIMUM DISTANCE AND PEDESTRIAN SAFETY MEASURES ARE TOTALLY ABSENT.
    I HAVE NOT EXPERIENCED KANKANADY RECENTLY BUT I FELT THE VEHEMENT TRAFFIC OF BANGALORE THIS FEBRUARY.
    PEDESTRIANS HAVE NO CHANCE.
    EVEN A SMALL ERROR CAN BE FATAL.
    WE MUST FORCE MANGALORE CIVIC AUTHORITIES TO HAVE MORE PEDESTRIAN OVER BRIDGES.
    HOWEVER I AM STILL NOT CONVINCED ABOUT VALLY'S ACCIDENT.
    IF I WAS IN HIS PLACE I WILL PROMISE YOU THAT I WOULD HAVE JUDGED THE SITUATION BETTER FOR THE CONTINUED LIFE OF THE LESSER FORTUNATE BABY.
    PEOPLE HAVE TO DEVELOP ACCEPTANCE FOR SITUATIONS HOWEVER MUCH THE HURRY MAY BE.

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  • Rajesh and Doris lobo & fly, Shirva/ Kuwait

    Wed, Apr 03 2013

    Dear Minchu,Royden,Neil,and Shawn Heartfelt sympathies on the sad and sudden demise of your beloved. May his soul rest in peace and Lord grant you strength and courage to bear his loss.

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  • Leslie Fernandes, Brahmagiri, Udupi

    Wed, Apr 03 2013

    DEAR RESPECTED LAVINA/RAJESH,
    I STAND BY MY COMMENT.
    ANYONE WHO RUNS OVER SOMEONE IN DAYLIGHT CAN NOT BE CALLED A CAUTIOUS DRIVER.
    HE WAS NOT CONCENTRATING ON HIS PATH AND AROUND.
    WHEN YOU SEE MOVEMENT OF PEOPLE ALONG THE ROAD IT IS YOUR DUTY TO SLOW DOWN AND ANTICIPATE THE POSSIBLE RISKS.
    SECONDLY TAKING OWN LIFE IS NOT A SOLUTION AT ALL.
    DO YOU FEEL HE HAS SET A PRECEDENT FOR OTHERS TO FOLLOW.
    COME ON GUYS.
    I DO SYMPATHISE WITH HIS NEAREST FAMILY AND THE DEAD GIRL AND HER NEAR ONES.
    I MIGHT HAVE BEEN A BIT HARSH BUT THIS IS WHAT I FELT.
    SORRY IF I HAVE HURT ANYONE IN NOT BEING HIPPOCRATIC AND SPEAKING MY MIND.

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  • Boniface&Shobha Lobo, Kulshekar/Bahrain

    Wed, Apr 03 2013

    To our dearest Minchu,Royden,Neil & Shawn. Please accept our heartfelt condolences..May the Almighty grant you all the strenghth & courage to bear this huge loss..May his soul rest in Peace.

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  • Lavina Noronha, Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 03 2013

    Without knowing the facts, please do not make harsh comments and call him names. In the tragedy last month, the girl did not see the approaching car and reportedly crossed the road to join her mother who was on the other side of the road.
    If he was a coward, he would not be carrying so much remorse for something that was not his fault. Mr. Valerian has driven me and my family long-distance on many occasions and he was not a reckless driver.
    Instead of engaging in mudslinging let us pray for the repose of his soul and be a source of support for his wife and young children.

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  • RONNIE & ANITA GOMES, Kadri, Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 03 2013

    Hearty condolences to dear Minchu & family. May God Rest his Soul in Peace.

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  • Rajesh, Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 03 2013

    Dear MR Leslie Accidents not only happen due to recklessness of drivers but also carelessness on part of pedestrians too. Even if it was recklessness on part of MR Valerian, he might have felt that he cannot give back the little girl to her parents.This guilt might have been playing in his mind day in and day out.Sometime the guilt can be very tortuous.The parents of the lost child need their child back & not some money offered to them. Perhaps if Leslie had mowed down a breadwinner of a family he would have looked after their children.I feel Valerian is a good person who was kicking himself for the mistake he committed & much unlike MR Salmaan Khan whose Drunken driving killed a person & injured several people sleeping on the road.Actor became very successful thereafter. I do not think guilty consciousness had ever pricked him.

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  • Bulsam, Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 03 2013

    Why kill himself?
    Sad.
    RIP

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  • Leslie fernandes, Brahmagiri, Udupi

    Wed, Apr 03 2013

    VALERIAN,
    I WILL NOT SAY ANYTHING ABOUT YOUR DEATH.
    YOU ARE A COWARD.
    FIRST OF ALL YOU WERE TOO CARELESS TO KILL A SMALL BABY.
    SECONDLY YOU KILLED YOUR FAMILY NOW.
    YOU COULD HAVE HELPED THE DEAD GIRL'S FAMILY IN WHATEVER WAY YOU COULD.
    SHAME ON YOU MAN AND YOUR DEATH WILL NOT BE ACKNOWLEDGED BY ME.
    I AM SORRY.
    YOU COULD HAVE BEEN CAREFUL IN THE FIRST PLACE.
    OR REMORSEFUL AND HELPFUL TO THE BEREAVED FAMILY.
    INSTEAD YOU CHOSE TO RUN AWAY....

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  • Praveen, Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 03 2013

    Leslie fernandes, Brahmagiri,

    your commented little too much . the girl crossed the road with out parents guidance. accident can happen any time. for that always drivers can not be blamed. how can you comment so much with out knowing him personally.

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  • Jacobnelson, Bejai

    Wed, Apr 03 2013

    Dear Leslie Fernandes,
    Cool down
    I can feel your immotions

    Tender childrens always escorted by elders or parents.

    When you are at 30 KMH speed also
    all of sudden something comes in front of your car is it possible to stop on the spot?
    definately it will cross few inches if not feet
    how fast you apply breaks.
    It is mothers fault standing on the other side of the road and
    allowing child to cross dual road at kankanady, i nkow how busy is htat road at day time,even elders need to check twice both end before crosing that.

    If God forbiden accidents can happen at any time and at any place without notice.
    I too feel symathy fot that Child.

    But I have no right to hate Late Valeraian Rodrigues.

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  • Ravi Bhaskar Shenava, MANGALORE

    Tue, Apr 02 2013

    See the extremity in the psychology of Indians. Here is a very tender hearted person who killed a child unknowingly in his car accident, for which he has repented for more than one month and still he committed suicide ( May his soul RIP).
    But we have an extremely Cruel gang-rapist and murderer in Delhi who committed the heinous crime fully knowing well what he is doing, and still he is not repentant even a bit and asking for nutritious food and tutor in Jail.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mangalore/Mapusa/Mumbai

    Tue, Apr 02 2013

    Not many people understand HUMAN VALUES.
    May his soul RIP.....

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  • Rudolf Rodrigues, Mangalore/Mumbai

    Tue, Apr 02 2013

    RIP Valerian bro!! Why had you to commit suicide for a mistake in that, you have completely destroyed your family's future!!

    I personally feel there was some other issue like facing long court cases, compensation claims, debt, etc. which should have added to the original guilt of running over an innocent pedestrian!!!

    God grant his family and to those affected by the earlier accident immense strength to overcome the bad times!!!!

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  • rajesh piramal, mulky

    Tue, Apr 02 2013

    God ,plz give this type of emotional feelings to our express and city bus drivers...

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  • Déshabillé, Mangalore

    Tue, Apr 02 2013

    Rest in peace. Very sad incident

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  • Ted, Mangalore

    Tue, Apr 02 2013

    RIP Valerian Rodrigues

    You Deserved to Live, not Die

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  • RAJESH, PUNE/DUBAI

    Tue, Apr 02 2013

    So many Kind of human Beings we come across in Life. He knew the importance of Life so could not bear the loss caused b'coz of Him. this should set as an example to all the City and Inter City Bus drivers who play with Human Life on street every minute and every day.
    RIP Mr Rodriques

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  • Amin Bhoja, Patte / Riyadh

    Tue, Apr 02 2013

    A guilt of his inner feeling for the tragedy.A true person his repenting and remorseful action.'May his soul rest in peace'.

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  • A. S. Mathew, U.S.A.

    Tue, Apr 02 2013

    So heartbreaking to read such a news. He was a very lighthearted person with great concern for the life of other people. This unexpected tragedy has torn him apart in guilt-lost his peace and purpose of life. If he had correct contacts with counseling and spiritual help, this cold have easily averted. Hearfelt condolence to the bereaved family, they will be in severe pain. May his soul rest in peace.

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  • Prem, Moodbidri

    Tue, Apr 02 2013

    The child was killed in accident... valerian roadrigues didnt kill the child intentionally. So, he should have understood the reality & should have consulted doctor for coming out of psychological stress due to the incident.
    RIP Valerian Rodrigues

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  • Antonio D'Silva, Kuwait

    Tue, Apr 02 2013

    May God Rest his Soul in Peace!

    A sad story indeed, of a person who could not forgive himself. Many people would have found reasons to blame the cause of the accident on the little girl this man accepted the blame.

    While there is no way he could bring the girl back to life there were a lot of other things he could have done to make ammends, of course with the participation of the girl's family I know its easily spoken than done. Nevertheless he chose the ultimate now two families lost two loved ones!

    Condolences to both the families.

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  • jesse, kuwait mangalore

    Tue, Apr 02 2013

    Suicide is not a solution for the problem, instead problems increase. When he was in a state of depression he has to be taken to a proper counsellor, and he should pray daily. All this happens when there is no prayer in our life, we donot give importence to God in our life, we are running behind material blessings to get peace.we must pray to god for the Holy spirit, rest all things will follow. Order Masala dosa, Side dishes will automatically follow.

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  • Bharathesh Bangera, Mangalore

    Tue, Apr 02 2013

    this was what a human being will pass through when he realises what a disaster he has done , by killing an innocent child, even though accidentally. I am sure we all will feel it if something like this happens by us. That makes me to think how these bus or truck drivers dont care even though they kill many lives under their wheel. I feel for Valerian Rodrigues and pray his sole rest in peace. also praying almighty to give the strength and courage to his family to bear his depart.

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  • asmath, Sharjah

    Tue, Apr 02 2013

    RIP,Sad incident.
    Allah, Please save all of us from such situation.

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