Bangalore: Dentist 'kills self' after 'tiff' with husband



Bangalore: Dentist 'kills self' after 'tiff' with husband

Bangalore, Jun 17 (DHNS): A dentist allegedly committed suicide by hanging herself at her Vijaynagar house here on Sunday.

Sumathi M H, 28, married Mohindar N, a manager at a private firm, four years ago and the couple have a two-year-old daughter Tejika. They resided with Mohindar’s parents on 9th main road, Vijaynagar, said the police.

On Sunday, Sumathi wanted her husband to accompany her to a family get-together of one of her relatives at Chennasandra. She became upset when her husband reportedly refused to go with her and instead went to attend a religious function at an acquaintance’s house. A “humiliated” Sumathi went upstairs and hanged herself from a ceiling fan using a veil around 11:15 am.

After sometime, Nagaraj, Sumathi’s father-in-law, went upstairs and found her hanging. Immediately, he called up his son and rushed Sumathi to a private hospital where she was declared dead, police added.

Suvarnavathi, Sumathi’s mother and vice-president of Santhekasagere gram panchayat in Mandya district, however, told Deccan Herald that her daughter did not commit suicide as she was extremely bold and hated those committing such acts.

“The entire incident is suspicious as we were expecting the couple to attend the family get-together. Sumathi’s in-laws are responsible for her death. They cooked up the suicide theory to hush up their mistakes. They harassed her continuously and ended her life,” she alleged. “They restricted my daughter from making calls and exercised control over her every act. They never gave her freedom,” she said.

Mohindar and his mother, Sulochana, however, refuted the allegations. “They are making false and baseless allegations as I looked after my wife with utmost care during the last four years. I never imagined that she would commit such an act. I paid the fees of her MDS course in two installments and bought her a new two-wheeler to attend the classes,” Mohindar said.

“We were happily married, but there used to be heated moments once a while which are inseparable aspects of a married life. We neither harassed her nor demanded any dowry,” he claimed. “We had planned to go to her family relative’s get-together. She told me that she would be ready after I returned home after attending a pooja ritual. She called me at 11 am asking if I reached the venue. I told her that I would return home soon. I got a call from my father 15 minutes later asking me to rush back immediately. I was shocked to see her hanging,” he added.

Neighbours described the family as decent and dignified. “Sumathi was short-tempered and would react violently for silly things. Mohindar has a good name in the locality and is not the one who would harass his wife,” a neighbour, Venkatesh Babu T C, said.

The only daughter of Suvarnavathi and Hombalaiah, a state government employee, of Mandya, Sumathi completed BDA from Dayananda Sagar College and had got government seat in MDS at KIMS. The MDS classes were to begin on Monday.

The police have registered a case under Section 306 (abetment of suicide) of the IPC based on Hombalaiah’s complaint and said they would soon arrest Mohindar. They also clarified that there was no death note.

  

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  • Jhanavi, mangalore

    Tue, Jun 18 2013

    Why commit sucide..why dont people think of thier kids before taking this step.. how will her child take this.. how can she live without her mom.. i dont understand this concept of sucide... i really feel bad for the small kid nothing else.. everyone will move on inthier lifes..but that small kid will not have a replacement mom ever in life...

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  • Gurudath, M'lore/Mumbai

    Tue, Jun 18 2013

    Why should they arrest Mahinder? You can conduct an enquiry without arresting also.

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  • Amin Bhoja, Patte / Riyadh

    Tue, Jun 18 2013

    Sometime our marriages are like north and south poles,very far from each other and it is a unlucky and unfortunate union!.

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  • Vincent Rodrigues, Katapadi/Bangalore

    Tue, Jun 18 2013

    Very cruel incident and intolerable in the society if the death of the budding dentist is a murder.Our sympathy to the parents and near and dear ones of the departed and wish right punishment to the culprit responsible for this heinous act.Thanq.

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  • Manish Shetty, Derebail/Mangalore

    Tue, Jun 18 2013

    For this husband is not supposed to be blamed. Parents are to be, They grow them by giving everything she ask for and when she is married she finds herself in cage. This how this generation is now. Not all men become like dog and wag tail and go around.

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  • shruthi, mangalore

    Tue, Jun 18 2013

    Mr.Shetty that are called adjustments in life and it comes to only those who want to lead a good life.

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  • shruthi, mangalore

    Tue, Jun 18 2013

    I dont really know what to comment on this.Once the door is closed we really dont know what happens behind the 4 walls of the house.We cannot go on the so called good repo of the family.Girl must hav really got tortured all this while in 4 years and when she saw things wer gng the other way she must hav forced herself to commit suiside.all are equally responsible for this.Before mairrage thy say thy will look after daughter in law lke daughter.But none of this comes to be true after mairrage not all the family's are so.But yes most are.but that doesnt mean that one should commit suiside.that's the reason that girls are being educated now.to lead thier life.Parents be aware when u get u r daughter's married.IT isnt the end of the world.Life is really beautiful.Live it and let live.I can feel the pain which she must have felt.may her soul rest in peace.

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  • jaya, doha

    Tue, Jun 18 2013

    Very sad to read this... we can write so many comments about this tragedy but wht is the real matter daily happning in thier life nobody knows....

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  • Rita, Omzoor/Germany

    Tue, Jun 18 2013

    I am sure this silly reason for not accompanying her to the Family gathering,lead to suecide that too leaving a small child behind,none of the concerning mother would do. and the this matter of going to Family gathering certainly they talked before ,even pooja.it Looks bit comisch,he goes to pooja.why he didnt take her too?and the child?all funny Happenings. but now that small child must find herself growup without mother,is the one who will be suffering between the quarell from the grownup People.may her Soul rest in peace.and the needed strenth to the parents to bear their loss of a child in so early stage.

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  • mariam, mangalore

    Mon, Jun 17 2013

    Marrying at young age when not fully mature. Dentist married around 23 years of age and by 28 years she is out of this world.

    Poor girl, little did she think that she would do all this one day after studying so much for becoming a dentist.

    Parents please take care. do not rush your children with marriage because they are getting old or because you have to please your society.

    Please let your children understand and accept marriage at a time when they feel it is good to enter into marriage.

    Like this dentist, every day in India thousands of girls are dying in some way or other.

    Parents have to take care and ensure that they make life likeable and livable for their children and not force them to marry. after all marriage is one option for our educated children.

    This life we will not get for a second time. remember that.

    Hence take care and ensure your children live their lives well

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  • sundari ashoknagar, Mangalore

    Mon, Jun 17 2013

    Some of the ladies think that they can blackmail the husband in many ways and suicide is one of them. Why to have great expectations from husband after marriage? I know a person whose husband is alcoholic. They are young with 2 children. Husband is treated for his alcoholic. But when he went home wife is not prepared to lead her life with him. So she took some sleeping pills, was admitted in the hospital, police came and enquired, took her husband to question. She just wants to blackmail him and send him to jail. Now she is happy. She gets sympathy and help from others. We cannot blame only men but women are also to be blamed sometimes.

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  • alex, bangalore/manglore

    Mon, Jun 17 2013

    Short temper can cause lot of self harm ,it is very easy to blame the husband but who knows the real thing as wives can be totally indifferent to husband feeling many times.

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  • Ethan Avidhan Hans, Florida/ mangalore

    Mon, Jun 17 2013

    Found so many women with short temper and unreasonable logic , who finally meet such drastic end in the process of "teaching" their husbands and in -laws a "Lesson" is all due to uncontrolled anger controlling them, and being extremely selfish in not caring to their own children but trying to fulfill their own desires in pursuit of selfish pseudo/sadistic happiness to control everyone around them!! basically it is the fault of parents who are unable to rectify such weakness of their children by good counselling and anger management but by giving way to any whimsical demands of their children and later on justifying their support with some fancy psychological mumbo jumbo readily available in any of the feminist magazines and the ultimate result is such irrational behaviors by so called " Educated" People!!

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  • CYRIL MASCARENHAS, KIREM/MIRA ROAD/DUBAI

    Mon, Jun 17 2013

    FOR SUCH A SIMPLE REASON SHE WILL NOT KILLS SELF..AND HUMILIATION IS NOT A REASON."DAAL ME KUTCH KALA HAI"..SURE..

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  • Charles D'Mello, Pangala

    Mon, Jun 17 2013

    What a sad story. If life has to ended, what is the use of education and ambition to excel and finally end life...!!!??? I think animals are more wiser than human beings and they never commit such stupid things...!!!???

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  • Anand, karkala/Dubai

    Mon, Jun 17 2013

    Short temper might be the reason behind it and too much love from husband is also one of the reasons to take such coward decision by the lady.

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  • Rakesh shetty, mangalore

    Mon, Jun 17 2013

    BUSY LIFE STYLE IS THE MAIN REASON FOR THIS.

    BOTH ARE BUSY WITH THEIR FAST LIFE AND PROFESSION.

    NO TIME FOR FAMILY VISIT, TEMPLE, ETC.

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  • Sachidanand Shetty, Mundkur/Dubai

    Mon, Jun 17 2013

    Refusal to accompany her to a family get-together of one of her relatives being the reason for suicidal? May be something fishy. We have to pay our homage to deceased lady but if it is true then there is no need to shed our tears for her cruel act since she never thought about her two years daughter. In that case, my wife would have committed suicide thousand times since every time I refuse to go to my in-laws house since she is not happy to visit her in-laws though I follow her behind “Chup Chaap” since my father-in-law is my maternal uncle too

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