Experts Speak on Building Teen-Parent Bond at Hidayah Counselling


Experts Speak on Building Teen-Parent Bond at Hidayah Counselling
 
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Daijiworld Media Network – Mangalore (PS)
 
Mangalore, Dec 10:
The inaugural ceremony of Hidayah teen and parents' counselling was held at Jamiyyatul Falah Community Hall, Kankanady here on Friday December 10 at 4 pm. There was also a panel discussion on teenagers' problems and parents' responsibilities on the occasion.
 
Dr C P Habeeb-ur-Rahman, chairman, Unity Academy of Education, Mangalore inaugurated the programme. Speaking on the occasion, he opined that the Internet with its social networking sites has created a distance between the parents and their children.

Abdusalam Puthige, chief editor, Vartha Bharathi, in his presidential address stressed on the importance of tackling the problems involved in children’s psychological, moral and educational matters, especially in case of teenagers.
 
Shahnaz M, editor of Anupama periodical, Dr Audrey Pinto, HoD of counseling department, Roshni Nilaya, Dr Manjula KT, principal, Besant Women’s College, Prof Eisie Tharien, HoD of Psychology department, St Agnes College, Zaheeda Jaleel, principal, Al Ihsan Girls PU College and others spoke on the occasion.

The speakers focussed various issues like the need for bridging the generation gap between parents and children, spending quality time with teenagers, effects of television and movies, creation of a peaceful atmosphere at home, being frank and friendly with teenagers and so on.

Khasim Ahmed H K, chairman, Hidayah Foundation presented a paper on the occasion.
 
Umar U H welcomed the gathering. Abdul Razak Ananthady conducted the programme.

  

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  • AhamedNawaz, Mangaore

    Mon, Dec 13 2010

    Kasim why one more foudation when there is jamatul falah u were there in that every one opens a foudation i think we all should work under one banner ......that will help all of us many people r confused please let me know dear

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  • Ismail Sayyed, Doha-Qatar /Jokatte

    Sun, Dec 12 2010

    Wonderful programme.Wish you all the best and keep it up.

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  • Abdul Razak (dewa), M'lore/DUBAI

    Sun, Dec 12 2010

    A wonderful event! Great efforts put up by Hidayah team, under the leadership of Khasimbhai. Congratulations. Keep it up!

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  • , nasir jokatte

    Sun, Dec 12 2010

    mashallah very good job. keep it up.
    keep going.

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  • Aslam dubai, Surathkal

    Sun, Dec 12 2010

    Good Work, Kasim Bhai..
    Hoping to see Simillar program in dubai soon

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  • mustaq bolar, mlore /jeddha

    Sat, Dec 11 2010

    keep it up kasim bai

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  • Bulsam, Mangalore

    Sat, Dec 11 2010

    During adolescence, when the teenage daughter is faced with the task of differentiating herself, the mother-daughter relationship becomes one of alternating intimacy and hate, both marked with an intensity that only teenagers can bring to a relationship and bring out of their parents.
    The dangerous dynamic here is that mothers, in their attempts to keep the relationship alive and healthy, might smother their daughters. Mothers have to learn to stay close while also giving their daughters the space in which to claim their independence. If your parents bought into the prevailing gender stereotypes of their day, the danger is that as a teenage daughter you were never able to your autonomy while staying connected to your mom. That is, either you had to stage an outright revolt or you had to sacrifice yourself for your mother's lack of ability to differentiate her from you.
    Sons are struggling for autonomy and identity, which means that on some level they will reject their mothers as a primitive form of "not-me" and discern for themselves just whom they are and what it means to be male. This is particularly so during early adolescence, when boys are going through or have just gone through puberty.
    A great deal about the father-son, relationship is casual, especially during adolescence. The danger here is that boys miss their fathers just when they need them, when they struggle with what it is to be male.

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  • azeez, mangalore

    Sat, Dec 11 2010

    nice & progressive program

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  • mansoor adyapadi bajpe, jubail K.S.A.

    Sat, Dec 11 2010

    Good Work MashaAllah mr/Kashim

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  • zubeida basheeer, yemekere

    Sat, Dec 11 2010

    requesting everybody 2 attend such wonderful programmes instead of wasting time.i request the hidayath to invite children also 4 such programmes.let God bless the members to continue such programmes.

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  • Abdul Kader, Riyadh, KSA

    Sat, Dec 11 2010

    Excellent Work. Keep going.

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  • ASLAM, UDUPI

    Sat, Dec 11 2010

    CARRY ON MR.KASIM AHAMED.

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  • Haris k.h kumbra/puttur, muscat

    Sat, Dec 11 2010

    GOOD PROGRAM ,,, GOOD WORK

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  • zahid hussain baji, Mangalore / Kuwait

    Sat, Dec 11 2010

    Well done. These types of programmes and Seminars are a must to bring up our Community. But implimentation of the discussions should be followed up.Keep it up.

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  • Mohammed Asif, Mangalore/Jeddah

    Sat, Dec 11 2010

    Excellent step, keep it up

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  • amir angaragundi, riyadh

    Fri, Dec 10 2010

    welldon mr/ kashim god job we will with u

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  • Deluxe Sinan, Kankanady/Mangalore

    Fri, Dec 10 2010

    MashaAllah very good work but we missed it since we had no information. Next time plz invite all for the event.

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  • Nazmathnisa Laiz, Surathkal/Abudhabi

    Fri, Dec 10 2010

    Good work.

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