Woman locked up in bathroom for three years for dowry


Darbhanga, Sep 9 (PTI): In a shocking case of human cruelty, a 25-year-old married woman was allegedly kept confined here in a bathroom for the last three years by her husband and in-laws for not meeting their dowry demands, police said today.

The victim was rescued yesterday by police from a house in Rambagh locality of Darbhanga town, around 140 km north east of Patna, they today.

The Women Police Station SHO Seema Kumari found her in tattered clothes, unkempt dry hair and with overgrown nails.

"The woman could barely open her eyes in the sunlight, as she had survived in darkness and dim light, closeted in the small space. Though married, she had neither vermillion on her head nor 'bindi' on her forehead," Kumari said.

"The woman revealed that she was thrown into the bathroom and locked there. She was not allowed to see her child, and given leftover food irregularly. It was as if her in-laws were seeking revenge for not bringing ample dowry and giving birth to a girl child," the SHO said.

The woman hails from Patsan village in Andrathadi police station area in Darbhanga district. She was married to a Prabhat Kumar Singh in 2010. Soon after the marriage, her husband and in-laws allegedly started torturing her for more dowry, police said.

The torture increased when the dowry demands were not met and peaked when she gave birth to a girl child.

"She was never allowed to go to meet her parents. When her relatives visited Darbhanga to meet her, they were dissuaded or shooed away. She was also barred from interacting with anybody from outside," Kumari said.

"She immediately asked for her three-year-old daughter and wept inconsolably when the child could not recognise her," the SHO said.

The woman was rescued after much effort by her father Shyam Sundar Singh, who had finally complained to Darbhanga SSP Kumar Ekle, who in turn instructed the woman inspector to pursue the case immediately.

The police has registered an FIR against the women's husband, father-in-law Dhirendra Singh and mother-in-law Indra Devi and has taken them into custody.

  

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  • Neesha, udupi

    Wed, Sep 10 2014

    These days dowries are in a different form. In-Laws and husbands expect their working daughter-in-law to pay the rent of the house(even if the house is not on rent),electricity bill, maintenance etc. The DIL should take care of all these expenses.
    This is the mentality of some stupid people.

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  • Cathy, Mangalore

    Wed, Sep 10 2014

    I just don't understand how can a husband and in-laws treat her like that. It is very sad and heartbreaking to hear that girls go through this torture for dowry which is no fault of theirs. INDIA SHOULD BAN DOWRY SYSTEM or guys should pay dowry to girls. Lets see how that would go. Just imagine the torture she went through of not seeing her child and not getting enough food. What will he do with all that money? show off? Get some common sense ..........

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  • madhu, mangalore

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    worst part is even educated hindu boys are taking dowry even though the girl has a job and earning handsomely.
    .For parent's its become prestige issue . They are compelled to give dowry because everybody else is doing it

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  • A.M Shaikh, Dubai, Belapu, Kaup

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    The husband and in laws are BJP supporters they get anticipatory bail tomorrow.

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  • Dsouza, Bejai

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    What rubbish? how come you know that they have voted for BJP? Simply trying to politicize a social evil of our society...

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  • Fredrick Correa, Pernal/Mumbai

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    The women's groups should not wait till they receive complaints. They should be proactive and visit the newly wedded girls regularly to ensure that the in-laws do not exploit the newly married girls.
    The in-laws should appreciate the fact that the girl has left her parents, her house, her friends, relatives, neighbours and has come to a new environment. Good atmosphere will slowly allow her to forget the old environment as otherwise the new house will be worse than a prison.
    I understand that there is great joy in some North Eastern states when a girl is born because it is the girl who inherits the rights. In Kenya there is a custom in many tribes of giving cattle, goats, money etc. to the father of the girl, part of which he uses for the celebration of the marriage and other part, he will keep as compensation for parting away of his daughter. I wish this system comes to India, so that the parents will accept the birth of the girl with greater joy.
    With the higher education of girls, many girls are now becoming bold. If only the educated men stop their greed and stop treating themselves as commercial commodities, the married life will become such a Blessing for the families and the society.

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  • Well wisher, Udupi

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    Because of all these issues, nowadays the girls are in better positions and working harder than boys to reach their dreams, soon the boys will start giving dowry and start settling in wife's houses. Yipeeee I love to see that day.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    Three Cheers Wellwisher sweet-heart ! May your dream come true...

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  • macho, moodbidri

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    Boy giving to dowry to girl is prevalent in ARAB countries.
    It also has its consequence for girls not getting married as they ask more dowry, new separate house, a maid......
    This dowry system is also getting abolished in GULF countries at a faster pace, unlike INDIA.

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  • Lydia Lobo, Kadri

    Wed, Sep 10 2014

    Macho,

    Complete 'U' turn of dowry system is an extreme end. At-least support no-dowry system than cursing girls remaining unmarried because they did not find a boy paying desired dowry ? Looks like you had no female siblings nor realized how much your parents struggled to get them married !

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  • Ranjith Rodrigues, udupi

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    This Prabhat Kumar Singh (husband of the victim) is a very good candidate to get BJP ticket for next elections...He has proven himself with wife abuse.

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  • Ravi B Shenava, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    It is wrong to find fault with her parents for not trying to contact her for 3 years.
    In fact as per the culture of this backward area of Bihar, if a girl is once married her parents are not allowed to interfere in the internal matter of her husbands family, and she cannot call her parents without the consent of her in-laws years together. Even drinking water in daughter's in-law's house is considered as taboo in rural areas of Bihar. Due to such taboos her parents were not able to know the actual condition of their daughter.
    It is only in South India, Maharashtra & Gujarat a daughter can contact her parents daily without any restrictions from in-laws.

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  • sudhir, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    revenge on other party here also ?? LOL..kuch bhi

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  • Ceraj, Bejai, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    When ever parents do not hear from their married daughters max for 2 days please visit them or do arrangements to have them checked, this is the only solution.

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  • Vincent Rodrigues, katapadi/Bangalore

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    THOSE INVOLVED IN THIS TYPE OF ACTS TO BE OPENLY NAILED TO DISCOURAGE THIS GRAVE SOCIAL STIGMA.

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  • Glen, Mangalore/Dubai

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    So Mr. Francis Martis Aka Joe you mean to say something fishy in the sense it's okay to keep her caged within the four walls of the house??? People like you live in the US and talk about civil liberties and human rights but when it comes to these kind of cases you find something fishy in it. Actually you have reached US but your quarter ounce brain still remains in Barkur!!

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  • Stan, Udupi/Dubai

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    Now its time for her husband and in -laws to be in jail cells forever.

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  • ROVIN, managlore

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    WHERE IS MORAL POLICE DO YOUR DUTY NOW ITS AGAINST INDIAN CULTURE

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  • Lloyd Dsouza, Dubai/Surathkal

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    Fishy news.......women 3 years in toilet and her parents complaining now?

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  • Declan, Mumbai

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    Is this Indian culture ? What does the Chhadis association have to say now ?

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    Horror film story for Ram Gopal Verma ...

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    Lord, forgive them, because they don't know what they are doing.

    Taking dowry is no grace
    It's disgrace to our race
    Avoid dowry, marry for harmony
    Don't shareholder, but, life partner
    Behave manly, don't live on dowry
    Don't degrade yourself by demanding dowry
    And lastly don't sacrifice lives for dowry, since it is the great sacrilege.

    Her torture increased, because she gave birth to a girl. This we hear on the day India celebrates "Girl Child Day-8 Sept."

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  • francis (Joe) Martis, Barkur/USA

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    It appears story is somewhat fishy.
    I do not see 100% truth in it, story may have blown out of proportion after rescue of the woman. Husband must have tortured her & kept her within 4 walls of the house most of the time, but she must be cooking all the while she was inside, but not allowed to go out.

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  • Stany, Udupi

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    Francis, how you say that she was cooking and some thing fishy?
    3 year old daughter couldn’t recognize her. Police found her in tattered clothes, unkempt dry hair and with overgrown nails. She could barely open her eyes because she was in darkness. What else proof you need?

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  • Francis, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    I think you should put her parents behind bars. Are they really concerned about their Daughter?

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  • FAZIL, DXB

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    we are thousand time thankful to All mighty that we are living in heaven like south kenera, dont compare mangalore with UP/BIHAR.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    Horrible,how mean one can be?not allowing the child to see,locking in bath room,and for three years!and about delivering Girl child as though she went to Supermarket to choose one child.How can her own mother in law as a woman do this?This dowry System can nobody go against it?day by day it is making womens life more miserable even deeper even to death.Now put These all three in the same bathroom for each one three years .Treat them same way as they treated the Lady.Food ,water same way.punishment should not be spared.I just pity that woman.Hope she will recover soon and join her child and live further happy.even without husband.

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  • Ivan Almeida, Tallur, NJ/USA

    Tue, Sep 09 2014

    This is a real shocking news. I cannot understand why the girl's parents remained silent for so long (3 years??). Culprits needs to be treated in a similar way.

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