Puttur: Old man and his rescuer locked inside room by family – police resolve conflict


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Puttur, Oct 2: A neighbour, who went to the house of an elderly person, to help him to resolve the family issue he had with his son and daughter-in-law, was locked deliberately inside the room along with the old man by the daughter-in-law of the elderly man and other members of the house.

Suleiman (76), a resident of Nattibailu Mane in Uppinangadi near here had differences with his son and daughter-in-law with regards to the property. So Suleiman asked the help of Hameed, his neighbour, to accompany him to the police station to register a complaint in this regard. Police, who investigated the matter, had asked Suleiman to live cordially with his daughter-in-law until his son returns from the gulf, where he is employed.

On the request of Suleiman, Hameed had accompanied him to his home after the visit to the police station. Suleiman requested Hameed to come inside his room in the house. As soon as Hameed entered the room of Suleiman, both of them were locked inside the room by the members of the house by putting the latch of the door from outside. Both of them sought the help of Uppinangadi police in this matter by phoning them.

Though the police rushed to the house immediately, the inmates of the house did not agree to open lock on the door of the room in which they locked both Hameed and Suleiman. When the situation was about to go out of control, Uppinangadi police SI Nandakumar rushed to the spot and warned the inmates of the house to open the lock or else face consequences as per the Senior Citizens' Protection Act. Then the inmates of the house released both Hameed and Suleiman by opening the lock and latch of the room.

Suleiman, who was tired due to is age, as well as mental torture due to this episode, was consoled by the police officer by offering him food and shelter in his house. The inmates of the house are sternly warned by the police to live cordially with elderly Suleiman till his son returns from the gulf.

 

  

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  • Santan Mascarenhas, Kinnigoli/Mumbai

    Wed, Oct 03 2018

    Since I have visited many old age, paid and free ashrams, leprosy homes, hospitals, I have noticed, except for a very few, the conditions in most of all are not good. Keeping cameras at home and watching from America or other countries, the treatment meted out to parents is also not workable as the servants know how to cheat that too. Senior citizen homes is although the best thing now, it is extremely costly to purchase apartments and pay for every services. There are so many better schemes which are in foreign countries, that we can not even dream. Hence, as far as possible, the people should plan for their old age, have a clean life, unnecessary expenses should be avoided and have good relationship with children and everyone.

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  • SD, Bangalore

    Tue, Oct 02 2018

    Now a days, daughter- in- laws are very cunning and greedy, as soon as they get married they think everything the son earns is for her, her children and her family they don't want the son to spend anything on his parents and immediately start bossing over the sons elderly parents too. She may be abusing him hoping he will die and she can sell the elderly mans property and eat that too . If I were Sulaiman I would not give one Rupee to the son or elderly abuser daughter-in -law.

    Sulaimans son should put a camera all around the house so he can see for himself how his wife is treating his father when he is not around the house. I am sure she is extra nice to the Sulaiman in front of son. All the neighbors and police should keep an eye on this elderly man .

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  • Harold D'cunha, Mangalore, India.

    Tue, Oct 02 2018

    Here the question comes the dispute between father in law who is 76 years old and his daughter in law where as the Son is working in the Gulf. This reaction is not one day affair and those who comment negatively against daughter in law, should remember it is not easy to take care elderly people by a young daughter in law alone, when her husband is not living along with her and the picture of mother in law is not mentioned here.

    The best solution might be, the son should arrange a alternative to this elderly man in Senior citizen homes; if such homes are available. At least then, this elderly man will have a company of his same age group people, to share their grievance and encourage each other.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Wed, Oct 03 2018

    Herald cunha mangalore,it is not so easy as you tell to arrange a place to the senior person in a home.Just imagine his feelings .H elived in a family,now because of property disputes to put him in a home.?A old tree cant be uproot and put in a new place.It wont survive.Instead his son should come and settle things either wife should cooperate with him ,wife must be warned not to lock him in a room,if it continues so he must lock her in room and ask how she feels there.Noone should takeaway the freedom of other by locking inside.Father too must adjust a little to the situation.not to grumble unnecessary when something doesnt function as he wants.Property issue should be cleared with lawyer and rest of his family.Old homes (all ) are not so as their name tells.Nowadays daughter in law s are new horror to the seniors today.Thats my experience .(Not personally)

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  • Harold D'cunha, Mangalore, India.

    Wed, Oct 03 2018

    Rita, Germany
    If you are in Suleiman (76), position aged 76 years, here his wife's presence is not mentioned and his son is not with him, BUT he is forced to live with his daughter in law, who is not his child but she is just want to harass him, then, what are the option left to him as his own son, who is working in the Gulf. The son might having limited options:
    a. either re settle his old father in the same age group, might be old aged homes if any available OR
    b. move his wife and children from that place.

    Better to live separately if resources are available rather no guarantee for this old man to live peacefully, who is at the mercy of others. At least the son in the Gulf can work peacefully and earn. Theory is different than practical.

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  • Pooki 3, MANGALURU

    Tue, Oct 02 2018

    Then they are claim that GOD fearing and read holy book ! This is not reserved for particular family its all over is the same scenario !! So when you are young little enjoy and keep some for your oldage expenses

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Oct 02 2018

    Better sell all your property & live in a Ashram with dignity ...

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  • Bala K, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 02 2018

    Prosicute them for harassing elderly man.Why only warning.

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  • El En Tea, Mumbai

    Tue, Oct 02 2018

    Daughter In LAW uses all the power. Because of that you may find many parents are logded in Old age home.

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  • JOSEPH, mangalore/kuwait.

    Tue, Oct 02 2018

    MOST OF THE DAUGHTER IN LAWS ENTER HOUSE ON THE WEDDING DAY AS LIONESS IN GOATS CLOTHING. NO ONE SUSPECTS HER INNER HEART. MAY GOD BLESS ALL SUCH DAUGHTER IN LAWS

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  • Dr. Haneef Shabab, Bhatkal

    Tue, Oct 02 2018

    Very shameful act of the so called 'Family Members'.
    Really it is disgusting that any person who take care of his Family through out his life has to go through this tragic turn at the end !

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  • JOHN, mangalore/kuwait.

    Tue, Oct 02 2018

    IN THIS MODERN AGE MOST UNHAPPY PERSON IS THE ELDERLY PARENTS. THEY GIVE EVERYTHING BEST FOR THEIR CHILDREN EVEN THOUGH THEY SLEEP HUNGRY.•YOU CAN SEE IN GULF THEY RESPECT ELDERS AND KEEP A CARE TAKER FOR THEIR PARENTS THATS WHY THEY DONT FACE PROBLEMS LIKE US. TODAY WE ARE SICK, WE DONT HAVE PEACE, BACK TO BACK PROBLEMS AND TENSIONS , MAIN REASON IS WE NEGLECT OUR PARENTS, AND WE GIVE MORE IMPORTENCE TO ROMANCE, Yes we have to give respect for the elderly. If we don’t look after our elderly parents properly we will not live long on this earth and gods curse will fall not only on the children but future generations as well.!!if some one tortures his or her mother his foundation of the family will be uprooted. this is not from my pocket but it is gods word .. you can read Ephesians 6:2 and exodus 20:12 and you can come to the conclusion what will happen if u dont respect your parents.I remember an incident which took place in my family. An arrogant daughter in law not allowing her husband to give good food and the whole day shouting and abusing. And keeping the poor old woman in her 90s on a wheel chair for 12 hrs. One day old woman’s daughter went to see her at that time she was in a semiconscious state.immedietely she admitted her to a hospital. Just imagine how one can sit in a sitting position for 12 hrs.? That also after paying 30 thousand per month only for feeding rice water. This wicked woman was not allowing to give soups and nutritious food instead she was drinking and eating from this 30 thousand. Shameless woman

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Oct 02 2018

    Don't leave Property for Dogs ...

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  • Danish, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 02 2018

    Pass an Ordinance on equal rights and see the MAGIC.

    Time and again people don't realize they do get older someday.

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  • Tell The Truth, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 02 2018

    Property itself is evil of all cause.

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  • Tell The Truth, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 02 2018

    Elderly person aged 76..how you keep him inside locked. Please conceal passport of his son until matter not resolved.

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  • pooki, mangaluru

    Tue, Oct 02 2018

    bottom line is that 'mind your own business', especially when it comes to family matters do not interfere as far as possible.

    You may even get killed in the process.

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  • Arun, Mangalore

    Tue, Oct 02 2018

    Daughter in law and other housemates should have been put in prison for few hours. All the churbi would have disappeared.

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