Bangalore: Techie Killed wife for Lover


Bangalore: Techie Killed wife for Lover

Times of India 
 
 
BANGALORE, Nov 15: Manoj Kumar was not married to the woman he loved. He had to choose between the two, and soon. He could not displease his parents since it was an arranged marriage. And breaking up was not easy.

The software engineer from Chennai thought hard and hit upon a plan. His wife Lakshmi, a bride of four months, had to go so he could continue his relationship with Anuradha Reddy, his former colleague.




Lakshmi, also a software engineer, worked with IBM, Bangalore. On November 8, she was not feeling well and stayed home. Manoj grabbed the chance, took a three-hour break from office, murdered her at their home near HAL, and went back to work.

As usual, Manoj left home around 9.30 am on that day, and returned home in the afternoon. While conversing with Lakshmi, he spilled some chilli powder on her face. When she was washing her face in the kitchen, Manoj put on gloves and hit her on the head with an iron pipe, before strangulating her.

He ransacked the bedroom, took away Rs 30,000 and his wife's jewellery and mobile phone. He packed everything into a bag, along with the iron pipe he used, and slipped out of the house. On the way back to office, he dumped the bag at Ejipura.

At 9.30 pm, Manoj returned home and called up the police, saying his wife was murdered. The first to come under suspicion were some construction labourers, as there was work going on in the second floor of the house where the couple stayed. A shopkeeper had seen Lakshmi talking to two workers and giving them water to drink.

However, chilli powder spilled on the floor, as well as some hair lying in the kitchen, suggested it was the handiwork of some insiders. Hair samples were sent for forensic tests and the police inquired about Manoj's movement in the office that day. Manoj could not give a convincing reply as to where he was during the three crucial hours.

The police also recovered the bag which Manoj had dumped in Ejipura, barring the mobile phone. Manoj has been arrested and remanded in judicial custody.

Manoj was employed in Bangalore for a long time. Recently, he began working as a consultant with a software firm. He was involved with former colleague Anuradha Reddy, who had applied for a divorce with her husband. Meanwhile, Manoj's parents learnt about the relationship and forced him to marry Lakshmi. The couple had gone to Chennai for Diwali and returned to the city.

  

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  • Shiva Ram, Hyderabad

    Wed, Oct 20 2010

    Now both the families suffer...I think social values have collapsed,family values have diminished...only god knows whats happening (

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  • kams, chennai

    Wed, Aug 19 2009

    Relationships after marriage has to have a line of control. FAMILY is our first food then comes the remaiing delicacies....Family values cannot be regained once lost!!parents need to a firm supprt for their kids

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  • Ashraf Kuwait, Sullia

    Tue, Nov 18 2008

    Yes, I agree with some of the above comments. The fact is that, parents must not feed their children by force. It may lead to the child  throwing  up. A forced  relationship will ultimately end up in sorrow. Parents must also understand and respect the wish and will of their grown up children..

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  • Edward C Maben, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Mon, Nov 17 2008

    This is where we have to sit and think of how important it is to have a healthy parent & child relationship. We cannot deny in today's day that our children are porne to do a lot of things which we parents may not like. But at the same time we also cannot deny the fact that for many of the things that our children do, we are many times responsible. I think in this case to be particular, the parent is to be held responsible. Because, what has happened is a direct connection between the parents arrogance and the son's psyche. The parent must have understood thier son's emotions and understood the consequences of pushing him for a marriage he did not want. In the bargain, some other parent who did a good job in raising thier daughter has lost her. So in this case I would blame the accused's parent for all that has happened. Its better that we parents think rationally and acknowledge that our children dont remain kids for a long time. They become adults too, just like us. And perhaps they have a tendency to be more successful than ourselves.

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  • Naveen Monteiro, Manglore DUBAI

    Tue, Nov 18 2008

    Dear Parents, Please do not force your children to marry someone  of your chioce.  They should live together for life and it is best that  they choose someone of their own choice.

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  • shamila shetty, dubai

    Tue, Nov 18 2008

     Manoj Kumar felt bad to displease his parents but did not feel bad to kill somebody's innocent  daughter ??? Heartless person !!!

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  • lancy pereira, kokkada

    Sun, Nov 16 2008

    My kindly request is please... please... dont do this with innocents.

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  • Roshan D'costa, Moodbidri/Abudhabi

    Sun, Nov 16 2008

    What's is the use after studying that much in life and committing such a shameful act. People nowadays want to study more and more so that they can live a descent professional life, there is no any difference between this man and a animal!

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  • Rohith suvarna, dubai manglore kottara

    Sun, Nov 16 2008

    pls dont force ur children

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  • Dinesh Shetty, Manglore / U.A.E

    Sat, Nov 15 2008

    What he think? marriage is a play? funish him the same way what he done his wife. Then he realise. punish his parents also, who had knowingly his son's habit. they have force married him with other innocent girl.

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  • ronald, barkur/bhadrigiri

    Sat, Nov 15 2008

    I cannot understand why in this day and age, educated professionals find it necessary to do all these foolish things. If they had a strong love for each other, they need not have agreed to the marriage proposals their parents had brought for them, and vowed to stay single.

    Eventually both parties (parents) will have to give in or face having unmarried children in the family. One finds there are many inter-caste and even inter-religious marriages taking place these days. Biologically, what is the difference ? But social, cultural and inter-religious problems is another matter. That is the couples problem. Indeed, parents should be very open with their son or daughter and vice versa, and there should be no surprises. If the paerents don’t approve of a friendship for valid reasons they should candidly express that to their son or daughter.

    If the boy or girl still cannot stop and love is clearly the very strong bond between them, then the parents should realise that they are made for each other, especially after they watch the relationship blossoming over several years. Then why cant they be comfortable with their child’s ion ? Total transparency on all sides-boy, girl, and both sets of parents is key. Indeed easily said than done ? Perhaps ! By killing Laxmi, Manoj has proved nothing to anyone except that he is a coward and a fool. Coward because he has killed his innocent, defenceless, unsuspecting wife and because he had no guts to tell his parents when they brought Laxmi’s proposal if he has the heart to kill someone else’s daughter, but not the courage of conviction to refuse to marry the proposed girl and tell his parents the truth about himself and Anuradha Reddy - why not ? Finally, I do not think this love affair was strong enough and certainly not of the immortal type. Otherwise why did both Manoj and Anuradha agree to marry anyone other than each other. This happening in 2008 with software people in a city like Bangalore ? Totally unnecessary, and what a criminal loss of life and the heartache to her parents for life.

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  • Preeti Monteiro, Mangalore/Israel

    Sat, Nov 15 2008

    One should always think several times before getting married. If you love somebody, stand by it no matter whatever or whoever comes in your way. Or else, don't fall in love. Why get married to someone by force and spoil both lives?

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  • santhosh hegde, udupi/dubai

    Sat, Nov 15 2008

    my dear parents,donot force ur children to marry ur choice.plz take suggestion from ur children.

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  • Mohammed Asif, Dubai/bajpe

    Sat, Nov 15 2008

    OFFCOURSE LOVE MADE FOR EACH OTHER, PARENTS SHOULD GIVE A CHANCE TO DO WHAT LOVERS HEART SAYS.

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  • Charles D'Mello, Pangala

    Sat, Nov 15 2008

    If the result is like then I urge yougsters to stick to their own beliefs. Do not budge to any pressure. Yes elders will put pressure but ultimately descision is yours. Now two lives have been spoiled and four families are in shock or devastated. Why, by the selfish interst of that Engineer!!!???

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  • Mary Pereira, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Sat, Nov 15 2008

    Parents, please DO NOT FORCE your children to marry because you have to be made happy for the moment. See the consequences faced for life by your children whom you have forced to marry. Day in and day out these incidents take place and yet parents force their children to marry whom they feel is good for their child. Remember the old saying, 'ONE MAN'S MEAT, ANOTHER MAN'S POISON'

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  • Siva Narain, Karnataka

    Sat, Nov 15 2008

    If marriages are made in heaven in that case whether it is love marraige or arranged, it holds good that Lakshmi's marriage with Manoj is the true marriage. It is so sad that Lakshmi is the victim. Most of the love marriages nowadays ends in problems, rather age old arrranged marriages hold good. Arranged marriages gives us an opportunity to love the unknown beforehand as in the case of our neighbour. Love or arranged marriages is still a debatable issue, but with due education, understanding and blessings of the parents, love or arranged marriages are one in body and soul and cannot be broken. Children, Parents and elders, be open and do not force each other to end up this kind of disaster. Both type of marriages has certain pros and cons.

    But the common factor in both the cases is physical attraction and love. Same in case of arranged marriage where the relation starts only after the girl or boy likes each other. But there are certain things, which are found in love marriages and not in arranged like spending time together and getting to know each other. When they decided to spend the life together it is important they know and start understanding each other and build a healthy and family and society.

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  • DEEPAK, Mangalore/ dubai

    Sat, Nov 15 2008

    Marriage is divine & is a great blessing that comes to each one who enters into a marital life. but it could be curse on the person if he marries without knowing the proper knowledge of it and commits blunders and makes others life unhappy. No one has the right to kill any body. If he does so the gate of hell has already opened for him. so be wise when you act with your fellow human being.

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  • Roy D' Silva, Cordel / Dubai

    Sat, Nov 15 2008

    Dear Parents, Do not force your children to Marry someone of your choice, whom they dont wish to.

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  • Lancy Moras, Bajjodi, Jeddah Saudi Arabia

    Sat, Nov 15 2008

    Sad ending. Should not happen to an enemy even. I urge teenage and youngsters not to waste life in such ending rather they should think 10 times before marrying and then spoiling life of any innocent. I really feel pity on Lakshmi. Manoj should be given a strong treatment.

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  • M.Bhat, Mumbai

    Sat, Nov 15 2008

    O I really feel sorry for the unsuspecting innocent girl. The need of the hour is to have a frank discussion before marriage between the couple to know if they are into any affairs. Its the duty of the parents to make enquiries about the background of prospective grooms/brides. Donot get fooled by lifestyle and lavishness and job.

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  • Jaison D'Souza, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Sat, Nov 15 2008

    People should think before marrying. Some are in love with some other person before marriage or later fall into love after marriage. Then at last they either divorce or kill that person. One more stupid thing is why parents force thier children to get married.

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