Puttur: Bride who went missing on marriage day located, found married


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Puttur, Mar 5: Navya from Pullaje in Koltige near Savanur in the taluk, who had gone missing at around midnight a few hours before her marriage was to be performed, has been found. She had gone to bed after the Mehndi ceremony performed the previous night of her marriage and fled after midnight once all the other family members slept.

Navya, who is found to have married her lover, appeared in Yelandur police station in Chamarajanagar district on Wednesday, March 4.


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Navya's marriage was scheduled to be held at Shivakrupa Hall in Parpunja on February 26. But it was found during the early hours of her marriage that the bride to be was not to be found anywhere. As such, the marriage function was cancelled. She is found to have married her relative and lover Naveen from Kalmadka in Sullia taluk. It is learnt that she had escaped from her house in a motor bike driven by Naveen in the wee hours of February 26.

 

 

  

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  • Daisy Vas Moodbidri /Canada, Moodbidri /canada

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Had she said to her parents would they considered her request? Why she ran? because she found them more orthodox. No girl or boy will take these steps if parents are able to listen to and accommodating. There is no shame for parents. Recently, I read few cases in india and Canada and Afghanistan Honor killing because they got married or had affairs. Is our society embracing certain norms? If girl got married in a pressure and later on boy or girl committed suicide would that not bring shame to the parents and the relatives? Would that not a torture? People who are commenting here saying girls parents would get
    Taunts and they will face society and shame, keep in mind the person who started that comment started the problems. It's better someone who give support by words and by actions. Support the parents of both families and support boy and girl. What if she was our sister or our brother!!

    Let us leave the people to live their lives

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  • El En Tea, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Only one Cooment Shaadi Bhagya either with Navin or New groom.

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  • George, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    We want equality not OVER EQUALITY

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Research deserves to be applauded but where to search now ? Gone with out any clue.

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  • Vaishak, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Running away is ok. But why she had to wait until last moment. What a waste of money, time and given stress to the parents and others.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    See all writing big analysis,essay,commentary and all on this.No experience and research behind this.Very wrong ...
    Most asking ...why run on wedding eve ...why not tell before only ...and all such stuff...
    So I only did research ...Then who does ?
    It seems on 2 days ...before wedding and after wedding night....Female suddenly has ' surge of strength' it seems..( This continues till end also in 90 percent cases )and it seems she is ready to do anything to get what she wants dearly...Now the puzzle is solved no ? Only on these 2 days she is ready.
    Otherwise how will you explain running in wedding clothes in bikes and bullock carts ?Nothing matters ...run means run ....
    Got it no ?
    Want to know more aa ?
    Ho ho ...Nicely reading.I have to research.
    You all sit in arm chair pressing Agree...Disagree ...Lazy fellows...

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  • Vishu, Udupi

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Got it Sir....
    After madrangi, Nayva encouraged herself "Jaa Navya Jaa, Jee le apni zindagi" .

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Then you both eat " Padangi " From S. Kanara ...No ?
    So little local flavor in dialogue...from inner voice ...Right ?

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  • Vishu, Udupi

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Exactly.... Madrengi, zindagi, Padengi :)

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Vishu, bejaara malpade.... Ereg la award undu... First Bhandar Sir na award aavad... Bokka ereg... Erena topics on padengi, madrengi, zindagi bokka kirengi... Atha kallengi???

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Yenk disagree boord la aaand... Yenk ithe confirm and. ...definitely "aaale" 😆😆

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Award goes to my dear Bhandar sir for his farsightedness, logic and moreover for his research work on such topics of eloping, kidnapping and marrying, surging on two days etc etc. etc. I do agree that he is will experienced and good in experimental deeds.... God bless you Bhandara.... Stay fit and healthy 😆😆

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  • R.Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    See Cynthi see...
    How much search and research i do !
    And I told you no....These arm chair resting people pressing disagrees ...
    What they know Kumbla Kai ? About these things ?
    I heard these conversations OK ?
    "Pudaar Bhandarkar aa ? Odhune bodchi ....Paad disagree..."
    Athe onthe thule.....
    "Thudu masth aathand ...Paad 2 disagree Paad ...yenaa ..Nina ...
    Another ..
    "Konache gho comment ? Bhandarkar ghee ? Gaal takaa Gaal 2 Gaal"
    Kashen....?
    Disagree Gaal...Vaazu naaka....2 -4 Gaal...Somor yeje Thaane ..
    What to do...After so much efforts ? Life's like that !

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  • Vishu, Udpui

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Eloping, kidnapping and marrying, surging
    Cynthia Madam, you missed BELI LAIPING

    Nama second prize de kush - balle share malpuga :)

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Vishuaananda swamy.... It's award... Not prize... In award there's no first award and second award... Here it's seniority wise.... This time award goes to our Bhandara Sir who does lot of research.....be prepared to receive

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  • I wish I was There, Bahrain

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Navya and Naveen, if you both are Happy then I am Happy. I wish I was There for the ceremony

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    God bless the couple... I too am happy.. Don't leave me alone....i too wish if I was there for their wedding to greet and eat

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  • George, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Lenten season, no celebrations only penance and retreat.

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Georgee, we can attend the functions on invitation, dine and come. But, we are not supposed to celebrate..yes... I do agree with you. Most importantly we should have control over our words which may hurt others...we should not gossip and spoil someone's name... We should not cheat and such acts likewise... Eating food does not cause harm to others right? Now, please start the prayers. I too am joining you... 🙏 we should pray for each other...ಪಾವ್ಸ್ ಕೆದಾಳಾ ಜೊರ್ಜಾಬಾ ?? ಸದ್ಯಾಕ್ ಅಹಾಂಯ್ ಗೀ ....?.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Why all these Complications Now ...

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Love Guru,
    Why are u quiet.?

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Fri, Mar 06 2020

    Love guru has given a chance to mahaguru that's you Flavian... He is busy on research work.. He is on the verge of getting PhD......

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  • Daisy Vas Moodbidri /Canada, Moodbidri /canada

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    When the girl ran people started commenting on issue and the reason why she ran, who did she ran with. Now she is found, again it's on girls character, shame, boys expenses. No one thinks outside of the box as to why it's happening. Why we are in 18 century? Why we don't sit and talk to our generation and see how it can be solved.

    The problem is not western culture or influence of any movies. The problem is within us. Acceptance of certain norms, prestige, blindsided to the issues, ignorance of our surrounding, less involvement of our kids in certain things.

    Make your kids more responsible and independent from early age. Marriage, choosing life partner give preference to boys and girls. Don't shut their mouth and impose your rules on them. When they are adults, after 18 don't spoon feed and don't make them still babies. Give moral support in every situation. Every behaviour has consequences. Those should be known by everyone and not only girl or boy even parents. It's better at this point give support and wish them best

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  • I wish I was There, Bahrain

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Naveen said I pray that God give him a wife, after marriage he prays that God save him from her.

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  • Cynthia, Kirem

    Fri, Mar 06 2020

    And she prayed oh god please save me from naveen...

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  • H. Almeida., Bendur/Andheri

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Fleeing with your lover, on a bike at dawn, is certainly exciting.... I wish them a happy married life.... The shame, the taunts from society, financial burden, will destroy the girl parents..... This certainly was avoidable, had their daughter confided with her family !!!!

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  • Flavian, Mangaluru/Kuwait

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Should be well experienced.
    Hidden Love (romance)
    Like; old flame never dies !

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  • Mangalurian, Mangaluru

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Old flame never dies?

    I hear every married man say: Every flame has a use-by date. Typically after two children are born AND the man lives under the same roof.

    If the man lives in another town on job, it is a different matter.

    This world is complex.

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  • Vishu, Udupi

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    ನವ್ಯ ದಾಯೆಗ್ ಉಂದು ನಾಟಕಯಾ ?
    ಸುರುಟೆ ದಾಯೆ ಪಂತುಜಯಾ ?

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  • Daisy Vas Moodbidri /Canada, Moodbidri /canada

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Suruttu panare niklu baayi open malpare budodu atha?

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  • peacelover, india

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    ಶುರುಟ್ ಪಣರೇ ಪೋಡಿಗೆ ಆಂಡ್ , ಅಮ್ಮೆರ್ ರಿಜೆಕ್ಟ್ ಮಾಳ್ಪವೆರ್ ಪಂದ್ .

    ಎಲ್ಲಾ ಪೋಷಕರು ಮದುವೆಯಾಗುವ ಮೊದಲು ತಮ್ಮ ಮಕ್ಕಳೊಂದಿಗೆ ಅವರ ಅನುಮೋದನೆಯನ್ನು ಪರಿಶೀಲಿಸಬೇಕು.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Ram Gopal Verma has found a ready Script "Dulhan Wahi Jo Piya Man Bhaye 2" ...

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  • Thomasaquin, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    In view of this elopement, isnt it right that the "Big fat Indian wedding " celebration should be cut down. A small reception after the wedding if required is the order of the day. These days weddings start with 3 early functions and 3 after functions plus the wedding. Unnecessary oneupmanship in keeping up with the Jones's

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  • Deshbhakht, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    No, I say, rather the bride/groom should be given the responsibility of putting together their own marriage. Starting from parents looking for a match, spending for everything from engagement to homecoming after marriage, should be transferred to the shoulders of those who wishes to get married. When this happens, all costs will be cut down to the minimum.

    Parents saying that 'we are spending, what's your problem if how many people come, or how grand the function is' should be stopped. Today the youth are well educated and ensure that they are employed before they get married. As such, even marriage should be as and how they want.

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  • Mangalurian, Mangaluru

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Great thoughts.

    People often call it: "Transfer of Responsibility".

    A person remains a child (or rebellious child) when someone else handles all the responsibility for them.

    Slowly and steadily Transfer the Responsibility, and they become 'grumpy adults' very quickly.

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  • Deshbhakht, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    It actually happened with some people we know. The groom is a Techy, Bride a Professor. Why would they want their parents to worry about what they need - obviously ! So, the youngsters set out starting from printing cards, booking hall, arranging temple/priest and sending invitations to their own invitees. They gave a certain number of cards to their parents (both sides). The parents invited their priority guests.

    Let me tell you, that is the only noiseless marriage I've seen in my life. Just a little lighting in their house - that's all. Everything outside - Mehndi, temple ceremony, Reception (Maami-Sheke). The parents were tired responding to congratulations about how lovely the whole affair had been.

    Yes, changes are taking place.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Deshbhakth mangalore,It is exactly same way happening here in Germany.When the couple decide to marry that they match to each other or feel they want to marry,start to save or plan their own wedding plans,location ,food ,and their invitees.One who doesnt have much to spend,some parents help some who do not have much ,keep it small.Even parents are invitees ,,.one who dont understand with parents for some reasons dont invite them even.some marry elsewhere in foreign country send a memo to parents saying "we married" later .They ask for money as present instead of own decision present.That will help them to finance marraige costs or their own home .Some marry only registered,which has more value.Others marry reg.and mostly in church.Church marraige is allowed only after Registered marriage .In this case I am sure parents knew that girl is in love with relative,opposed had not succeeded.So must have searched a new boy.

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Nav bharat syndrome..,

    Hindu khatre me hai...., all b'coz of FEKUISM....!!!! Where is Durga Vahini....!!!! good for nothing feku ideologists....????

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Moral of the reported story is that - The swami is a big FEKU.....,
    There is no wrong in what he did..., but he bring demean to the reverence of swami...., Now we must wait to see what action these self confessed (controlled by thug mentality) cultural organizations.... do...!!!

    Those who shout - Hindu religion KHATRE ME HAI....!!! , must take note of these incidents....!!!!

    jh
    jai hind..,

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  • Anwar, Mangaluru

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Escaping at midnight in a motorbike, Nostalgic !! Sometimes in future when their kids grow up, they have an adventurous story to tell them. Have a wonderful life.
    To the groom who might be disappointed, there are a lot of motorbikes around, find your love.

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  • Sunil Pinto, Dubai/ Udupi

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Lol

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  • Jai Shetty, Mangalore /Dubai

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    She has copied the Hindi movie called "Shaadi-Mein-Zaroor-Aana"

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  • Daisy Vas Moodbidri /Canada, Moodbidri /canada

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Am sure you wouldn't even comment if the girl belongs to your family and or happens to be one of your relative.
    These things will keep happening if we still think we are living in bubble world. Get them married at 18 doesnt solve problem. Don't make girl is a prominent role. The boy had enough guts to take the girl but didn't have enough courage to talk to girls parents. No one knows what position he has. Since they are relatives, may be girls parents are doing well in the society. Do we accept and respect boys side or boys relatives?. This is just a hypothetical reason as I have gone through same thing. Not run away situation but my mom and us were not recognised by our close relatives as we were poor though not born poor. We need to change ourselves and I'm sure by experience and education we would really do great

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  • Joe Gonsalves, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    NAVYA, i JOIN SCORES OF PEOPLE IN WISHING YOU THE BEST OF EVERYTHING IN YOUR MARRIAGE. After you have to marry some one you love and have to live with him for the rest of your life..

    Now make sure that you remain loyal to each other for the rest of your lives.

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  • Subramanya Shetty, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    These kind of stunt love finally end up with divorce ..Sad to say it, but it is a bitter truth . Never betray parents as they are the one who give you an unconditional love even at your worst situation . God bless

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  • Deshbhakht, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Mr. Shetty,

    Even if divorced, it's she/he who face it. Her parents' house is closed for her, the day she fled. Under such circumstance, they both (especially she) will adjust to the maximum because there is not insurance (parents) to protect the risk.

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  • Deshbhakht, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    If a Swamy can marry a girl of his choice, so can this girl.

    Leave them alone to live their life.

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  • SBM, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Groom should claim compensation incurred by him and his parents for the ceremonies.

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  • Deshbhakht, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Oh, really ?

    Do the grooms reward when a fully paid marriage is conducted by the girl's parents ?

    Don't grooms take it as if it's their right for being born as a male, and the parents of the bride sustain it because they have given birth to a girl ?

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  • Vidisha, Mumbai

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    It is okay she married her lover, but what she did was not right. She could have elope much earlier. After so much money being spend on the marriage preparations and also wronged the boy she was supposed to marry, I feel she should be made to compensate for the loss.

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  • Sunil Pinto, Dubai/ Udupi

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    @vidisha, Mumbai
    There is no right or wrong in this world..only possibilities (swami pintonanda)

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  • Deshbhakht, Mangalore

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Vidisha,

    When you meet her, please ask her if she told about her involvement with the relative to her parents and if they refused to grant their permission.

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  • Shivaramayya D., Chikmagalur

    Thu, Mar 05 2020

    Exactly what you have commented right, Vidisha. Vidisha

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