Udupi: NCW member Shyamala Kunder welcomes govt’s decision to raise women's marriage age to 21


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Udupi, Dec 22: "It is essential to raise the women's age for marriage to 21 years. The union government has introduced this change to empower women," said a member of National Commission for Women, Shyamala Kunder.

She further said, “Prime Minister Narendra Modi has introduced the ‘Beti Bachao Beti Padhao’ programme to educate women. But, in most of the places, a girl is married off at the age of 18 and her education is stopped.

“There are several instances where the women cannot receive their degrees, but got married under parents’ pressure.

“The girl who attends turns 18 will not be mentally prepared for marriage. Hence, the National Commission for Women has suggested the government to increase the age of marriage to 21 years.

“Through reports, it is been proved that if the girl is made to get married in her college days, it will impact her mental health.

“In India, out of 1,00,000 newborn babies, 113 die before they are 30 days old. The reason behind this is that the mothers are too young in many cases. Hence, to prevent child marriage completely, it is essential to table this bill,” she said.

 

 

 

 

  

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  • Mohit, Mangalore

    Thu, Dec 23 2021

    I support this law. Girls should be mature enough and educated to stand on their own in case of any crisis. We should not politize this matter. Don't make a comparison for western world. In western world rape and killing human's is unheard of. But in India it's a lot. So let's protect our dear Sisters from ambiguity of life and make them more responsible to lead their life. Girl or Women as many remarked as if they are only an ITEM who has no life of their own. Is that you all treat a human being. Forget about race, religion or political party you belong to. Give respect and take respect guys. Jai Hind.

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  • JNB, Mangalore

    Thu, Dec 23 2021

    Parents will have another 3 years added responsibility towards Girl child, so government has to think about increasing retirement age for parents 63 years and provide pension accordingly , only increasing marriage age will not solve the problem in society .

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  • Mangalurian, Mangaluru

    Thu, Dec 23 2021

    Cynthia, I saw your message a little late. It is 21 in this round. When the lawmakers get enough common sense, they will raise the age to 40. But for them to get the necessary common sense might take another 200 years. So you win so long as I am alive.

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Thu, Dec 23 2021

    Yaaay......💃💃💃💃💃.....🕺🕺🕺.... Its ok... you replied na....! Forgot to put congratulations to me ? I win you win...all win for Manglurin....

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  • Kokke77, Bappal

    Thu, Dec 23 2021

    Most of the countries in Europe and America have 18 years as the minimum age for a woman to marry. If you go on raising the minimum age, young couples will enter into a live-in relationship with bad consequences on the society. Government should know that they can't reform society just by enacting laws. That again is a fascist tendancy.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Thu, Dec 23 2021

    Not only in USA and other countries have fixed the age of 18as mature to marry and to vote too.They didnt do it simply so.And as living together before also or after it is not combined with age .Even in India people do get children before marraige or marry before 18in villages.

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  • El En Tea, Mangalore

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    If Yashodha Behn deliver this speech ok we can follow but this Shamela kunder asked to do so doubting Indians tax payers money credited in her account Its a Feku era big tilak to fool our own daughter n Sister

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  • Charles D'Mello, Pangala

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    Mrs. Shyamala Kunder at what age got married ,,,,!!!!??? Yes I do agree girls must not get married during their education, But those who have stopped their education due to poverty or any other reason shall get married if they wish. Bearing kids have happened in earlier years without even having so called modern hospitals and Doctors at the age of 16 or less under the supervision of Koosaggi at home. And most of us have survived by born at home under the supervision of koosaggi who dint have any formal education.

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  • Langoolacharya., Belman / Washington, DC.

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    Charles, Do you know 'Consequences' of producing an 'Unwanted Children' ?.... If Father says I will pay for Child it does not make any sense.... paying paper money means NOTHING.... In addition to buying food , cloths, medicine, School fees , which parents pay...a child needs seats in School, Seats in Hospitals, Space in Roads, Electricity, Medicine, Seats in Prisons and what not .... father of unwanted child does not pay for this... India's 65 % problem for being poor is its corruption ....35% problem due to its Over population.... I believe you visit Australia to visit your relative, Australia's population is 25 Million / 2.5 Crore....Country is bigger than ours / a full Continent.... Forget about Modi and his politics....this decision will certainly will bring our population down in next 5-10 years... ...Tak...Takk...

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  • Rita, Germany

    Thu, Dec 23 2021

    Langooji,USA,,what you say I agree with it.When this Amma says age of marraige will be 21years,do u think all will obey it?Even till now they had agreed of 18 years.But mostly in Hindus and Muslims girls were married off even before 18 years ,in villages who will ask for age ?Mostly in North in villages they marry a girl off when they need someone to work or cook .Schooling is hardly observed in villages in North ,since they cant afford.These girls are not mature.have children or husband will kick her off when not enough dowry comes.In future too I dont think anyone will adhere to the age.With 21 years girls are mature and can lead a family life with full know how.In case husband kicks her off can work when education is there.Previously girls had no education .Had to depend on him.Many Parents wants that their responsibility to finish without looking what boy is really doing and tells the truth.later comesout that was fake .When girl and boy should first know each other their likes and not,is better than marrying a unknown one.

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  • Shivappa, Mangalore

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    This is a communal bill! This will be revoked very soon!

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  • Surendra Poojari, Mangalore

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    Just to please your boss Mrs. Kunder. Great job. You are silent spectator when girl gets raped including babies, you are silent when some one leaves his wife or tortures his wife. Hypocrites. You will praise PM even if he raised women's marriage age to 50 as you are andh bhakth.

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  • Roland, Mangalore

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    Madam, I know you are giving this statement just to show your boss.please don’t give statements just for the sake ok.

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  • R Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    Che ! Cynthi Kaal kaheen?? Tujo hodlo Manthaaro naa gee?? Thaane " Bee che Gudaanth " haath gaalna... Bee hive gho ! " Bee Bee Come in Frustrated Group like me " manaalo konna ! Bee Sodthaat ghee?? Haaka Suzhon ದೋರಲಾ ! Tujho Dattu... aaz Gul... !

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣..... Asa tho aaz. Saglya newsank comment kela Bhandar sir thane. Pun poora comments suzlyath taka beeyani suzaillyabori..... Dekun bol na dista.... chikke chappe comments aaz.

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    Bhandar sir, did you get invite from your BEE for his session at St. Aloysius this week ? I asked him the date...He didnt tell me....What was the topic in his session ? You say he is not to be seen today...must be delivering....🤣🤣

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  • Jamal, Mangalore/UAE

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    Yes if you marry off at very young age the girls will suffer the way one poor lady in Gujarat is suffering.

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  • Reshma, Mumbai

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    Exactly. Some people even marry 18 year old at the age of 70. She may be his 20th wife.

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  • Sheikh M, Mangalore, /Mohd Ali Rd,Canada

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    Girls get mature at the age of 16 , So 16 is an appropriate age for a girl to get married , They should have exempt Muslims before it sent to legislative for ammendment

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  • Rita, Germany

    Thu, Dec 23 2021

    Sheikh M.Caada,you are wrong.At 16 ,girls are seem to be mature,but at 18 is they are more matured in mind set .Thatswhy Govt too has set the age to marry and to vote too.16is underage.Girls who get children at 16body is not fit enough.Previously they were getting married early ,get children early.

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  • Veer, Nagpur

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    Is govt giving any monetary compensation for girls for life if they can not get married after 21, otherwise they would have got married if they were younger????……Normally poor families want to get rid of the burden of thier daughter as soon as possible if some good proposal comes. If voting age is 18 years to decide a right candidate of thier choice then what is wrong in making their decision at age 18 to get married???????…….In fact this govt is even ready to reduce voting age to 14.

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  • Memu, Udupi

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    One more Amma born in the State to teach us all. ....

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  • Achhu, Mlore

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    Youngster can enjoy at the age of 21. husband will be the loser. he must accept damaged goods.

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  • Cynthia, Dk

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    Mangalurian.....your dreams remained as dreams only. Its 21 not 40 as you wanted. Now, what you wil say ?

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  • KS Mayya, Mangalore/Bangalore

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    This will come as a huge relief for women in the rural areas especially where there is a intense pressure on girls from their parents.

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  • RJS, Mangalore

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    When did Shamala get married?

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  • Jamal, Mangalore/UAE

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    Why you want to know. Her parents married off her and it irrelevant.

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    18-19 is a correct age 4 girls marriage, not less dan dis age. more dan 19-20 age, it is individuals choice

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  • Daniel, Mangalore

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    Are you serious? At 18 girls will just finish puc. Why marry them so early. If they are given a chance at getting a degree by 21/22 they will be educated and will be able to handle themselves no need of dependence on husband. At 18 itself if the burden of a family is put on their heads what's wrong with you?

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  • David Pais, Mangalore

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    fake name idiot daniel read correctly what I wrote, 18 is a minimum age limit 2 any females if dey want 2 get married. above dan age 18 is, your choice 2 Marry any time any year or u have da choice 2 marry or u can remain spinster, nobody question you.

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  • Mbeary, Dxb

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    70% of funds of beti padho has been used to advertise PM's face, wat rubbish is she talking about. Some educated bhakths who are hardcore voters of modi, irrespective if they hav money in their pockets, due to the great economic policies, are made to believe that this bill will affect muslim girls who are married early. But as they are bhakths, we cant expect them to know the reality that in rural India, most women irrespective of age are usually married off at age of 16.

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  • Naveen Shetty, Mangalore

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    What is the age of consent for sex in India? This has to be fixed seperately. Institution of Marriage is dead in India.

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  • R Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    See in almost all cases Men open Eyes only after marriage ! Got my point?? Gives men more time to be free actually. Who are all objecting?? Many think after marriage ಸ್ವರ್ಗದ ಬಾಗಿಲು ರಪಕ್ಕ್ opens... meaning doors of heaven open instantly. Not the case ok?? Ask any one here. Those who hit disagrees the most here will also agree. All smashed potatoes they have become ok.... This decision looks like good for women, but tilts more in favor of men ok?? Which doors open you ask aa?? Doors of responsiblity and unrest... ok?

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  • SMT, Mangalore/UAE

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    1 Ok.. 2 Ok.. 3Ok.. 4Ok... :-)

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  • R Bhandarkar, Mangaluru

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    HMT Ok? SMT.... Small Machine Tool aa? Ok. Ok. Ok. 4+4 ok?

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  • Moosa, Mangalore

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    I Appreciate this law. Women should be matured enough before entering wedlock.

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  • Sanjeev Kamath, Udupi

    Wed, Dec 22 2021

    Stops efforts of conversion!!

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