June 14, 2024
Everyone's life is just a series of moments encompassing happiness, sadness, failures, and successes. It's a mixture of emotions and feelings, and we are busy absorbing all these moments into our bodies. This is why sometimes we feel completely drained, and other times we feel like we've conquered the world. Human life is actually fortunate. There's a saying that God has created everything the atmosphere, animals, flora, fauna, insects—and finally, humans. Only we have the ability to enjoy and utilize our brains to build something. We have all these fortunate things and can experience everything fully, yet our lives are filled with countless chaos—everyday challenges, tiredness, complaints, and desires.
Do you ever ponder the meaning of life?
Do you believe it has a purpose? If life does have a purpose, what might it be?
Take a moment to recall a day when you cried uncontrollably. Consider that it was merely a moment; we all experience losses in life, and everyone's agonies differ. However, we all have a purpose here. We can say that the best aspect of our lives is that nothing is definitive. Whether if we didn't get the job we wanted, the partner you desired, the family dynamics you envisioned, or the course you aimed for—pause and reflect.
Think of the best moments in your life. Perhaps it was the time spent with your mother, father, friends, teachers, strangers, partners, pets, grandparents, or colleagues—wherever it was, at least during those moments, you found happiness. Reflect on the successes in your life, whether they were small or grand. At some point, you accomplished something you desired. When you recall these instances, you realize the extent of your happiness.
However, it seems we often focus on the moments of pain we've experienced rather than considering the instances where we've caused pain to others, whether knowingly or unknowingly. I've always wished for a technology or a method that could reveal to us how our words, deeds, and behaviors affect others each day. If such a tool existed, I believe many of life's problems would diminish significantly. Unfortunately, no such technology exists.
Nevertheless, if we contemplate life's games, we understand that sometimes it's about loss, and other times it's about success. There's no singular definition of success and happiness; it's all about how you teach yourself to respond everything."
Treat your loved ones how you treat yourself. Nowadays, everyone is aware of self-love and self-care, so treat yourself like a guardian protecting valuable things, and extend the same care to your loved ones. Unfortunately, we often witness people expressing anger, rage, and yelling at those who love us the most. Do you think that's fair? We preach to others about how to behave towards family and friends, but our actions often contradict our words.
However, there are still genuinely true people who shine like gems because they are extremely mature in serving and dealing with others. Life is comprised of moments, so reflect on how you treated your loved ones this morning, evening, or last night. Every day brings new twists and turns, but what remains constant is the love and prayers we receive from our loved ones.
Sometimes, we think about people who entered our lives briefly and then disappeared without a final word. But if we consider the worth of these moments, it's all about the experiences, lessons, and realizations they brought. Human life unfolds in various dimensions, leaving little time to waste on blaming others. Instead, learn, correct, and dedicate your best time to your loved ones.
It only takes a second to make a change. Understand that some people may still be seeking justice, as I've seen individuals who treat others well yet are taken for granted. To those people, I would say not to worry about the responses you receive from others because good deeds never go unnoticed. What brings you happiness and a sense of worth in your life depends on the values and priority system you adhere to. However, it's important to understand that what holds value and priority for you may not be the same for others. Nevertheless, life is brief yet challenging for everyone, as we all strive for stability, happiness, and survival. What we can control is how our actions and behavior impact others. These days, many people hesitate to extend a helping hand due to past experiences of feeling exploited. Despite this, we can't help but notice that people continue to hurt one another. Interestingly, it's often those closest to us who inflict the deepest wounds. Consequently, many people's experiences resemble nightmarish scenarios. Therefore, we can hopefully await the moment when our loved ones realize the pain they've caused. Despite enduring numerous hurts, Therefore, it's crucial to recognize that in the end, life is all about moments. Let's strive not to cause any of our loved ones to suffer, whether they are our parents, friends, or anyone else who cares for us.