August 31, 2024
We all have a family we are born into, the people who have been with us since the beginning. But as we go through life, we often find another kind of family—a found family. These are the people we meet along the way who become just as important, sometimes even more so, than our blood relatives.
A found family Is special because it’s built by choice. It’s made up of people who understand us, support us, and stand by us, especially when things get tough.
For me, I’ve discovered this kind of family at different stages of my life.I have fond memories of the friends I made back in school. We shared so many good times together—walking home, sharing lunch, competing in writing poems and helping each other with classwork. Though we’ve grown apart because of the different paths we’ve taken in life, those memories and the bond we formed still hold a special place in my heart. We were there for each other through those formative years and those connections have remained strong despite the distance.
In college, I found another important part of my found family—friends from my class who have been a constant source of support. They’ve helped me prepare for events, lent me clothes to look my best and even suggested poses for photos. These friends have been by my side, offering guidance and support, especially during tough times. When my mom was hospitalized, they cheered me up, shared food and provided emotional support. In return, I’ve been there for them, offering support and encouragement whenever needed. We’ve navigated challenges together and celebrated our achievements, creating a bond that feels just as strong.
My seniors have also played a significant role in this found family. They’ve guided me through many challenges, offering advice on relationships, helping with studies, and always being there to listen. The daily gossip sessions with them are a cherished part of my routine. Their presence has given me stability and emotional support during my college years. This mutual support has been a key part of our interactions, with each of us stepping up when the other needs it.
Growing up, things change, but the bonds we form and the memories we make with our found family remain strong. They are the people who stand by us, help us through hard times, and share in our joys. They remind us that family isn’t just about who we’re related to, but also about the people we choose to have in our lives.
As I continue my journey, I know my found family will always be there. They’ve been with me through difficult times and we’ve supported each other through it all. Found families are real, and they are powerful.