Journey of Life

  •   Mon, Dec 16 2024
  •   By Dilnawaz Banu

December 16, 2024

The journey of my life feels like a continuous buzz, rushing forward with numerous speed bumps along the way. At times, I fail to acknowledge or appreciate the progress, and yet, it unfolds like a story of ‘Kabhi Khushi Kabhi Gham’ (Sometimes happiness, sometimes sorrow). Life doesn’t always teach us what’s right or wrong, and I often question if the way our grandparents predicted life is the truth.

Society has set certain expectations for girls, sometimes treating them like models or showpieces. The journey of a girl is rarely easy; it’s full of twists, turns, and contradictions. A single girl, especially in traditional settings, finds herself running in different directions, often treated like an enigma—something to be solved. As if the entire narrative is written in relation to her, both positively and negatively, much like roses that bloom only to fade. I sometimes wonder, was being born a girl my mistake? Despite the tremendous achievements of women today, including reaching the moon, many still view them as burdens to their families. Girls are often praised for their reliability in old age, yet they are still boxed into a role defined by society’s limitations.

In my own life, I’ve experienced what I’d call ‘roses everywhere’, but with time, those roses transformed into thorns. The world judged me based on my physical appearance, but I didn’t let it stop me. I embraced both the beauty and the pain, and with resilience, I turned the narrative into ‘roses and thorns everywhere’. It’s a funny paradox, but also the truth of life. With the same physical appearance, I climbed the ladder of success.

Basic Moments of Life:

1. Happiness:

Happiness is a personal pursuit. We must find it within ourselves, nurturing it before we can share it with others. However, many people today have lost sight of this. Public expressions of happiness are often just a facade. True joy lies in the simple moments and in the ability to spread positivity, not in the false ideals often portrayed in the media.

2. Failure:

Failure is not the end. It is a moment we must accept, learn from, and then rise again. It is in our own hands to decide how we respond. I believe that crying is not a weakness; sometimes, tears bring the strength we need to keep moving forward. Life’s failures can be stepping stones, teaching us lessons that would otherwise remain hidden.

3. Success:

Success is subjective; it is often seen as the product of hard work, but in my experience, it's a blend of effort and divine guidance. We can do our best, but the outcomes are sometimes influenced by forces beyond our control. The key is to keep working towards our goals, regardless of the hurdles, because success is not always immediate but always worth pursuing. 

4. Struggles:

Struggles are not just challenges; they are opportunities. They awaken us from our comfort zones, forcing us to confront our mistakes and refine our focus. While they are difficult, struggles build resilience and perspective. We may not realize it immediately, but every struggle serves to strengthen our character and ability to persevere. 

5. Self-Discovery:

Self-discovery is the most personal phase of life. It requires introspection, courage, and the willingness to face both our strengths and weaknesses. Only through understanding ourselves can we determine whether we want to succeed or walk with the 'failure' tag. It’s about owning our choices and our path, no matter where it leads.

Conclusion

In conclusion, life’s journey is about acceptance and resilience. We must learn to navigate the huddles and the hurdles that life throws our way, without letting them define us. People’s opinions are often based on incomplete views—learn to tune them out.

The true lesson is to keep walking, learning, and growing. Success is a result of continuous effort and acceptance, not perfection. So, walk with confidence, embrace both the roses and thorns, and keep moving towards your goals.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 
By Dilnawaz Banu
Dilnawaz Banu is pursuing her second year BEd at St Aloysius Institute of Education, Mangaluru.
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Comment on this article

  • william, Mangalore

    Mon, Dec 16 2024

    Excellent.


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