Bangalore: Suicide Threat to Girlfriend Ends in Manipuri Student's Death


Bangalore: Suicide Threat to Girlfriend Ends in Manipuri Student's Death

Daijiworld Media Network - Bangalore

Bangalore, May 5: It was a day Seraphina, the 19-year-old girlfriend of deceased student Haisnam Jakoi (22), may perhaps never forget for the rest of her life. For, the love of her life committed suicide right in front of her, and she could do nothing to save him.

What would eat Seraphina more would be the fact that after their fight, she had ignored his threats to end his life. Little did either of them know that a simple stunt to threaten the girl would end in a tragedy.

As reported by The Times of India, Haisnam and Seraphina from Imphal had been in love for the past three years and had decided to get married after their graduation. However, their relationship turned sour after Seraphina reportedly began ignoring Haisnam. For a week, she neither called nor messaged him, which drove him to threaten her.

At around 11 pm on Thursday, the night of Haisnam's alleged suicide, the couple came to his flat after a shopping spree and went into Haisnam's room while his friends remained outside.

But the evening out together had failed to smoothen matters between them. Haisnam continued to quarrel with her and threatened to end his life if ditched him, but Seraphina ignored him and got busy with the stuff they had purchased. As per TOI report, such threats were common in their fights and nothing had come of it, so she did not take it seriously this time either.

Irked and annoyed by her continued neglect to his complaints, Haisnam went a step further. He got hold of a nylon rope, stood on a chair and made a noose out of the rope, with one end tied to the ceiling fan. He tightened the noose around his neck and went on with his threat, not really meaning to go ahead with the suicide.

But fate had different plans. The chair he was standing on suddenly gave way, and he was left dangling from the fan and gasping for breath.

"I saw him writhing in pain. I yelled to our friends outside, rushed into the kitchen, took a knife and cut the rope. By then Haisnam was barely breathing," police quoted the girl as saying.

She screamed for help, but it was too late by the time Haisnam's friends arrived.

"We found him gasping for breath. We alerted the neighbours and the police. We took him to St John's hospital, where doctors declared him dead on arrival," said Tony Logjam, Haisnam's local guardian, as quoted by TOI.

Haisnam was the son of an RTO officer and was staying in a rented flat with three of his friends from Manipur. The police stated that prima facie, it looks to be a case of suicide.

  

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  • Ahmed, Mangalore / Doha

    Sun, May 06 2012

    Nagesh Mamu..i second your opinion on this matter.

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  • umakanta, imphal

    Sat, May 05 2012

    In this case I believe the victim made a huge mistake . what he did was not very thoughtful. Love and anger doesn't go along smoothly. May his soul rest in peace . and may his girlfriend learn an important lesson from this -" Threatening is not a joke ". It's a lesson for all of us too. so next time you argue with your girlfriend and get mad.... think twice... before doing anything crazy...

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  • umakanta, imphal

    Sat, May 05 2012

    In this case I believe the victim made a huge mistake . what he did was not very thoughtful. Love and anger doesn't go along smoothly. May his soul rest in peace . and may his girlfriend learn an important lesson from this. It's a lesson for all of us too. so next time you argue with your girlfriend and get mad.... think twice... before doing anything crazy...

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  • umar bin ahmed, Riyadh

    Sat, May 05 2012

    Dear All, In the modern society money is the only target of life. Parents are nurturing their children for this goal only.the human soul will not content with gaining the wealth. because all the material we get in the market will satisfy our physical body only. soul always frustrate inner-self. Their graduations fails to help them in the time of mental crisis. their belief on this life and hereafter surely impact on this miserable act. if there is no life after death and we are not accountable for our deeds then what will make us brave to tackle all types of crisis? if the parents themselves are not stable on this how can guide their children? men who think will find light from my comments.

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  • GERALD, Modankap-Bantwal

    Sat, May 05 2012

    PAYING TOO MUCH ATTENTION TO SOMEONE (BE IT ANYONE ) IN LIFE WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE MISERABLE !!!! THEY MIGHT UNDERESTIMATE YOU SPECIALLY IN GIRLS CASE !!!! MORAL OF THE ABOVE STORY IS "PYAR KARO BUT WITHIN THE LIMITS" BECAUSE LIFE IS ONCE TO LIVE

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  • E.C., Mangalore / Nagaland

    Sat, May 05 2012

    I agree with Nagaesh Nayak. I think he has good knowledge of north east. Central Government is pumping money like water to north east and the most students parent's are big shots in the governments departments. And the finel result is as told by Nagesh.

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  • Vivek Baliga, Bangalore/Abohar

    Sat, May 05 2012

    what a waste of a life, check out the photo of the girl, she seems to be least bothered???

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  • Alvares, vamanjoor

    Sat, May 05 2012

    It is not the fault of the parent but peer pressure which make children fantasize about their future. What parent would want their children to leave the world before them? It is sad to blame parents for the children's mistake. Parents do give guidance but due to peer pressure and environment the children fall prey to bad elements.

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  • martin, oman/muredshwar

    Sat, May 05 2012

    Wawoo Nagesh Nayak
    I wonder even you can write some sensible word i like ur comment i agree wid u

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  • Rakesh shetty, mangalore

    Sat, May 05 2012

    SO SAD. FOLLOWING WESTERN CULTURE AND NEGLEGENCE OF PARENTS OF THEIR CHILDRENS ARE ONLY THE MAIN REASON FOR THIS SUICIDE ATTACK.

    THOSE WHO NOT FOLLOW THEIR RELEGION AND ASPECT , ACT ETC. NOTHING TO INVOLVE LIKE THIS SUCH STUPID CRIMES. ALSO PARETNS SHOULD AWARE OF THEIR CHILDREN WHAT'S HAPPENING IN THEIR LIFE AND TAKE CARE OF THEM.

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  • anamika, Mangalore

    Sat, May 05 2012

    Best ever sensible comment from Shri Nagesh Nayak. I support his views. Parents must be blamed for the upbringings of their lads.

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  • R.Bhandarkar., M

    Sat, May 05 2012

    This is what is called the 'Noose Tightening ' 'Act'ually
    So don't even try it 'Jovi'ally'!

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  • ahmed, mangalore/saudi

    Sat, May 05 2012

    This time I am with Nagesh Nayak. I fully agree his comments. Sending children far away and not bothering thier activity.

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  • vicky israel/m'lore,

    Sat, May 05 2012

    Pyar ..ishq or moabbat ...khalas..|

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

    Sat, May 05 2012

    This is a tragic loss, over posessiveness proves to be fatal at times. When in a relationship try to hold them, don't try to loose them. After all as it is said " Relations are made in heaven,only we follow it on ground".

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  • Ronald D, Udupi

    Sat, May 05 2012

    Parents send them for education and better future! They fail to realize parent’s motive and push them into deep misery

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  • nagesh nayak, bangalore

    Sat, May 05 2012

    PARENTS ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR ALL THESE MESS.

    SENDING YOUNG CHILDRENS FAR AWAY & NOT BOTHER TO KNOW THEIR ACTIVITIES , FRIENDSHIP ETC...

    THESE YOUNG MINDS ARE VULNERABLE FOR ANYTHING IF PARENTS GUIDANCE LACKING.

    I HAVE NO REGRETS WHO SUICIDE.

    HE / SHE ARE COWARDS WHO WANTS TO SUICIDE.

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