Mangalore: Love transcends barriers in inter-religious marriage at Arya Samaj


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Daijiworld Media Network - Mangalore (SHS)

Mangalore, Oct 16: They say love knows no boundaries nor barriers of religion, region or caste. A Christian girl and a Hindu boy, despite several obstacles and objections, tied the marriage knot at Arya Samaj, on Thursday, October 16.

In spite of repeated requests by the mother of 21-year old Sonia D’Souza to come back home spurning her beloved, the girl stood firm in her stance to marry Hindu boy, Roshan M S (24) proclaiming she was 'marrying him of her own wish'.

Earlier, the parents of the girl hailing from Eliyarpadav filed a missing complaint at Konaje police station as soon she moved out of the house to marry Roshan from Bantwal. At the marriage venue, two factions from both communities gathered until the police and parents arrived on the spot.

A heated debate ensued between Sonia and her mother prior to the marriage ceremony, with the mother making incessant efforts to convince the daughter to come back home. The girl told her mother that she could not lead her life without Roshan.

Kadri and Konaje police landed at the place and recorded the statements of the boy and the girl, finally dismissing the mother's missing complaint.

Police told the brother of Sonia that the girl was an adult and marriage was her prerogative. The police also advised Roshan to file a complaint following an alleged murder threat by Sonia’s father.

After all the legal procedures ended, the couple was married at Arya Samaj in a brief ritual as against the usual lengthy process of marriage ceremony.

  

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  • Godwin, Mangalore

    Wed, Oct 22 2014

    I read in news that the girl has run away back to her mothers house on the 4th day of marriage after complaining that the guy and his friends forced her to get married.
    Why only one side of the story is published.

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  • JSaheb,

    Sun, Oct 19 2014

    The girl told her mother that she could not lead her life without Roshan."
    Shame on those who prefer life partners to their parents. shame shame shame

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  • Rohit,

    Sun, Oct 19 2014

    Looks like Arya Samaj is Baj Rang Dal in disguise.

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  • Waleed Ullal , Ullal / Muscat

    Sun, Oct 19 2014

    What will happened If Hindu Girl AND Boy from Minority ?
    DOUBLE STANDARD, ...Minority religions like Muslims, Christians and Sikhs should stands together to fight against Saffron Love Jihad.

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  • Alwin, INDIA

    Sun, Oct 19 2014

    Why dont you call now RSS.Bd or love jehad.

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  • ALTHAF, KASARAGOD

    Sat, Oct 18 2014

    HUM KARE THO ATHYACHAAR
    TUM KARE THO CHAMATHKAAR

    WAH RAY WAH CHEDDIS
    LOVE JIHAD OF CHEDDIS

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  • arjuna, udupi

    Sat, Oct 18 2014

    Congratulations and lead a very good life , we talk about 21st century , but i see many morons here talk about conversion , to all those get a life people learn to adapt and move on , instead of spitting venom here.

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  • Denver Clouston Roche, Kallianpur/Kuwait

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    Time for Christians to form Moral police force !!!

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  • jacintha, kadri

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    But sad to note that this girl has gone away from her family fold.The parents have lost her.

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  • sam, world

    Sat, Oct 18 2014

    Jesus rightly said in Matthew 16:26 "What good will it be for someone to gain the whole world, yet forfeit their soul? Or what can anyone give in exchange for their soul?"

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  • George, Bangalore

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    It is nothing but a mere conversion into Hinduism. the Norm here is if a Christian boy does this then it is crime and if a Hindu boy does this then it is approved what a foolish system?

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  • Rohit,

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    Remember the old adage..
    Tum kare to chamatkar
    Hum kare to balatkar

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  • Glenn, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    I remember famous quote-"Never forget 2 persons in your life.
    One who lost every time to make you win(Father)
    One you stood by you in every pain(Mother)

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  • Shridhar, Mangalore

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    This is natural act my dear.. When a boy & girl attains puberty they naturally gets attracted to each other and would like to live together forever.. In that stage it is the responsibility of the parents to make their marital path smooth instead of putting hurdles on their way... But in today's society everything is looked through the prism of politics.. I feel even Bible refers to this process through this saying.."Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall join to his wife: and they shall be one flesh."

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  • Lamby, Mangalore

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    Paid marriage by sangh parivar just like UP . Diluting todays news for benefiting themselves.

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  • P.A.SHANU, Mangalore

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    LOVE JIHAAD ??????
    WHATS bAJARANGI'S COMMENTS ON THIS ??

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  • Rohit,

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    Baj Rang is now looking for another non-Hindu Love Jihad candidate.

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  • b k rao, mangluru

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    more such marriages....

    it is possible to have differing faiths and good family at the same time, because all regions preach the same values in different formats...

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  • Arul, Bangalore

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    I think we Christians don't pride ourselves of our religion or seem to understand how privileged we are to be one, if we fall in love we just marry off accepting other party conditions it and thereby lose our soul which reminds me of a passage'' what will a person gain if he gains the whole world and looses their soul'' my request to Christian community is please marry within ur own community like our other religion brethren take pride in your religion .

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  • aman, mangalore/dubai

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    Mr. Bhandarkar,I will wait for your comments when a Hindu girl is married to a Muslim or Christian, in addition nobody can lead a happy life by making their parents sad, I call such girls as selfish who forget their parents sacrifices

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    Mr Aman...
    You are way way back...
    Why should I wait?
    It has happened in my close family....
    Christians so many, Muslims a few and my eldest sister in law was an American ! My mother's elder sister's daughter in law
    she was! Punjabi, Gujrati, Sindhi, Shivalli Brahmins, Malyalee Christians...You name them...They have all come into our family fold!
    You think i am writing all this without having experiences-first hand? No Boss...I have seen life from very close quarters.
    Just not like some puritans here who crop up once a while and press only disagrees as their contribution!
    Haaven Poorai Polailaa Puthaa...
    So do not pull that one on me and beam 'cause you will have a few agrees!

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  • Jhansi, Manjeshwar

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    My question is whether they are ready in Arya Samaj to carry on a marriage (Christian girl- Hindu boy)without converting the girl's religion. "NO". They force to convert her. This is my personal experience. But i still follow Christianity. why always a girl is forced to convert her religion. Marriage needs LOVE, TRUST and UNDERSTANDING not religion.

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  • Vasant Raj, Mangalore / Abudhabi

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    Congrates both.....happy married life....

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  • Shalini, Mangalore

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    Congrats Sonia and Roshan. Happy married life.

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  • jaya, mangalore

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    "Neera melina gulle nijavalla Hariye"-all relations are like this. children need parents till they grow. Once they grow they become independent!....strange.

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  • Clarence, Mangalore

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    If it was hindu girl and Christian boy will it be a same comment maamu?? I dont think so because you will name it some jihad and your moral police will chase them all life. Nobody see the girls innocence dat tym.

    Anyway wish them happy married life. Let lord Jesus bless her to come back to him.

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  • Joe D'Souza, Mangalore

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    According to VHP:
    If Hindu girl marries Christian it is Conversion by Missionary.
    If Hindu girl marries Muslim it is Love Jihad.
    If Christian Girl marries Hindu it is called Paradise.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    Dear Joe...
    One common thing in all your three points. Which one?
    1 and only. Organs do not change in either, boy or girl, in all the three cases. Is it not?
    And I fully agree with your third point.
    "If Christian Girl marries Hindu it is called Paradise."
    How I know? Well, I, Lost Paradise when it was within striking distance!

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  • Nancy, Belman

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    Banhujeee....

    There are many reasons to convert Paradise into Hell.

    You know all this..Then why I should tell you?? yes or no?

    Here, real or reel love will come to know once she delivers child. Then she will come to know what is mothers love.

    Wishing all the best for happy married life.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    Dear Nancy
    Yes or No Gee??
    Burgen Zathaana Gee?
    Zaavoon Dhee...
    Athaa Kaalyaak Thajee Kaaljee?
    Gomath Karoon Dhee..
    Thancho Haath Thanchya Bodaar
    Amkaa Zaay Gee Jawaabdaari?
    Voi Ki Nayee??

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  • Mohammed Juned, Karkala/Abu Dhabi

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    How could one marry somebody without the consent of her/ his mother? How could your love be pure when you are in disagreement with the purest form of love, which is your mother? How could a mother's pain make the joyful day of your life? How could people be so disloyal to their goddam parents?

    Yea, I agree it's hard to convince some Indian parents for love marriage, especially if it has to be with the other side of the coin. But try, try, try and try. Don't we try our best find a good job or do we lose hope and sit back when we don't get one. Even marriage is like a job that gives you the income of happiness. We gotta strive for it and earn it with the blessings of our beloved parents.
    #personalopinion

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  • Rita, Germany

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    Congratulations to the newly wed couple.We should appriciate the couple that they stood firm in their love and didnt go wrong way like suecide etc.and legalized their relationship.I am not talking anything about their Religion ,and they are grown up,they should be knowing the consequences of it.It is a miracle,no Moral Police were informed and made Problems.only I can say parents should have not made murder threat to Roshan.They should realize that if any mord takes place,their daughter who will be unhappy and would they like to see it?what would they gain out of it?Everything will be a chaos,police,jail.think of it dears.she can come to her parents when she wants and can lead a life happily at the end.A marraige even in church in a ökumanish way is also possible nowadays if only priest is willing and the Boy.

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  • King, Mlore

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    So she can live without her mom? Was her mom wrong? Without the blessing of her parents will she be happy? Falling in love very easy but to keep that love is not that easy so we need blessing of parents.. She will understand when her daughter does same with her. Will understand the pain of her mother. I feel sad on parents what n all plan they might have had for her wedding. Love is happiness n but his is selfish...

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  • sunitha, mangalore

    Sat, Oct 18 2014

    hi your right...s parents have dreamed about her life and good future.. i realy feel sad of them..and her marriage was fixed on November with Christian community boy...before that she stepped her life...

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  • Abdul Rafiq, Uchila / Dubai

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    Wish you happy married life.
    But my advise to the youngsters to fall in love with a boy or girl from their own community and marry instead of hurting the parents and relatives.

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  • Naveen Shetty, Mangalore

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    Love Jihad by Hindu Boy...Wake up call for Christians? I think all RSS and BJP voices are silent now like that of Pakistan Rangers whose guns have fallen silent.

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  • moshu, Mangalore

    Thu, Oct 16 2014

    This time the headline sound nice and acceptable for Bidees.

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  • dam, mangalore

    Thu, Oct 16 2014

    If love knows no boundaries of Religion or caste... Then why marriage in as per Hindu culture.... Court marriage also possible....

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  • Rosario Fernandes, Kallianpur

    Thu, Oct 16 2014

    congratulations Roshan and Sonia. Wish you a happy married life...
    By the way Mr.Toku Adityanath, can we call this union a 'Love Jihad'?.
    Is this not a slap on your face?!!.

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  • Lingappa, Kuppepadavu/Amsterdam

    Thu, Oct 16 2014

    Best wishes for a long and happy married life.

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  • Mohammed Juned, Karkala/Abu Dhabi

    Thu, Oct 16 2014

    If it was the other way round, things would have been different! Nevertheless, A happy married life to both of you.

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  • Pioneer, mangalore

    Thu, Oct 16 2014

    I feel pity for her mother thats all....9months of suffering and 20 years of upbringing how come the girl forget...

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  • oswald lobo, mangalore

    Thu, Oct 16 2014

    my advice to the girl's mother is she should be happy with marriage instead of dead body of her daughter.

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  • santhosh, Mulky

    Thu, Oct 16 2014

    Good job... May god bless u.... :)

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  • Mera naam sahil hai, Mangalore/dubai

    Thu, Oct 16 2014

    now wer r those guys.. Who creating problem on earth.. LOVE JIHAD IT SEEMS.. Crazy jobless people..now come and comment on this guys

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  • RODRIGUES, UDUPI, DUBAI

    Thu, Oct 16 2014

    congratulation both roshan and Sonia....Happy married life...

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  • rajesh, mangalore

    Thu, Oct 16 2014

    I wish the Couple live happily hereafter without either of them imposing their beliefs on the other.

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Thu, Oct 16 2014

    A girls' 'first love' is....
    1.Very very pure...
    2.Purer and whiter than that of snow..
    3.One she never forgets the whole of her life.
    4.One which she will cling to with all her might,never willing to let go. Everything else is second-hand.
    5.Something she will sacrifice
    everything to be near to.
    How I know ..You ask?
    Haven't I told you so many times.
    Just look at the 'innocent delight' on the girl's face! I never advocate 'Boys' anything. They can be believed only from 'knee joint' downwards. There may be exceptions like errrrrrrr..forget it!
    Hope this Girl finds true joy in her life for the sacrifices made
    and the boy keeps up his promise.
    What caste Mai..the girl's mother?
    Do organs like heart have caste? Or does the blood running in our body have any caste tag??
    Grow up......

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Thu, Oct 16 2014

    None of the disagrees will be from the girls who loved truly and from their heart. This I am very sure about.

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  • victor, mangalore

    Thu, Oct 16 2014

    @R Bhandarkar...it was better if you had advised your beautiful enlightening sayings to your chaddi brothers...

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  • R.Bhandarkar, M'lore

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    @Victor..
    My sayings are relevant to those who wear Chaddis and especially to ones like you who wear none
    and know nothing about the long and short of it.
    You can advise, Victor, only when you are mature and your comment proves you are not.
    Grow up before it's too late.

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  • Mohmmed Juned, Karkala/Abu Dhabi

    Fri, Oct 17 2014

    After reading your unbearable comments for such a long long time I finally want to ask you this question.
    Bachpan se hi aise ho ya koi course kia hai?

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