Udupi: Children mortgage property, leave stepmother in lurch


Daijiworld Media Network - Udupi (SP)

Udupi, Dec 25: As the children of this old lady have gone their own ways after mortgaging the family property, Girija Shettigar (70), resident of Brahmavar Salikeri, is in doldrums. She has been roaming from door to door in search of some food and living. Having been distanced by her children and the grandchildren. She has been finding it hard to carry on with her life, said Dr Ravindranath Shanbhag, president, Human Rights Protection Foundation here.

He was addressing a press conference convened here on Friday December 24.

Girija, wife of the late Parameshwar Shettigar, does not have her own house. Because of old age she is unable to properly work and her eyesight has also become very weak and her ears are not functioning. Parameshwar, who was into sari weaving, had married Girija after his first wife died. Parameshwar had five children from his first wife, three sons and two daughters. Girija raised the children of her husband as her own. Parameshwar had some fixed assets in Brahmavar area and had ceded 40 cents of land located in Varamballi village in the name of his second son, Raviraj, through a conveyance deed in 2003. Even though Raviraj had the right to occupy the family house, in the said document, Parameshwar made it clear that Girija has the right to live there till her death. As she was warned against signing any document, Girija desisted from signing any document. After Parameshwar died in 2007, Raviraj mortgaged the house and land to a bank and raised loan. He suffered loss in business but had not obtained Girija's concurrence even though she enjoyed right over the house. The bank also failed to study the document properly and get her nod for granting the loan, Shanbhag said.

Girija came to know about the loan after getting notice. The bank people drove Girija out of the house in 2008 and took over the house. Girija complained to the police but they gave an endorsement certifying that the bank had done nothing wrong. Girija is listless and directionless now.

After her husband died, Parameshwar's first son, Thimmappa, who worked as a doctor in Bengaluru, took her to Bengaluru. After Thimmappa died recently, his son brought Girija back to Brahmavar and returned, leaving her behind. The third son, Laxman, looked after her for some days but did not provide her money for medicines and other expenses.

Ravindranath Shanbhag said that the foundation has decided to sue the concerned under the Maintenance and Welfare of Parents and Senior Citizens Act. He said that those who have got landed or movable property from their parents have the responsibility to look after the senior citizens. In case they fail to provide monthly allowance, the senior citizens tribunals should order to transfer the properties back to the parents, he pointed out. He requested the district administration to take steps to provide an honourable life, food, and accommodation to Girija immediately.

 

 

 

 

  

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  • kateel pai, vitla

    Sat, Dec 25 2021

    Now, a law preventing senior citizen abuse will be welcome.

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  • Pinto, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Sat, Dec 25 2021

    After reading this article I remember my mother how she was treated by her own children My advice to all parents don't trust your children. They will come to you as wolves in sheep clothing don't trust. Whatever you have transfer after your death. There are paying homes who give five star treatment.go and stay there. Don't stay with your children. Nowadays children are selfish. This article is an eye opener for all parents who have property.

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  • KvKamath, Mangalore

    Sat, Dec 25 2021

    Parameshwar had some fixed assets in Brahmavar area and had ceded 40 cents of land located in Varamballi village in the name of his second son, Raviraj, through a conveyance deed in 2003. Even though Raviraj had the right to occupy the family house, in the said document, Parameshwar made it clear that Girija has the right to live there till her death. Here the WILL is clear . While signing deeds, Parameshwar has mentioned space for her till her last breath. But bank is squarely responsible to allow her to live there. Here Parameshwar or Girija cannot be abused as the conveyance deed is clear .

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  • Rita, Germany

    Sat, Dec 25 2021

    Kv Kamath mangalore,of course Parameshwer made it clear his wife had the right to stay in that house.but does he noted it in document or only oral ?That makes the difference.When he clearly noted,bank shouldnt put her out ,and son couldnt mortgage it.Its always in old age ,such problems are now increasing.Money ,land and women are the main cause some people open the mouth ,to swallow .Hope Girija gets the house back and right.

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  • KvKamath, Mangalore

    Sun, Dec 26 2021

    @ Rita, Germany , The deed is clear in this case .He was able to convince the bank while taking loan. Life went up and down in the lockdown from the start of covid. But there are many doctorates in section 420 who teach anyone without taking fees for the entire course. I feel sorry for the bank . It is the duty of the bank to go through the documents instead of relying the sweet songs of the clients . The manager might have been carried away by his song and sanctioned him loan . Now he might have brought the stepmother to save his face and property . But the bank may have to wait for the last day of Girijamma. What a kind of headache for the bank ?

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  • KvKamath, Mangalore

    Sat, Dec 25 2021

    Bank is at fault . Let the bank allow her to live at her home till she sees the last sunrise in her life . Other procedures can be done by the bank later.

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  • ca girishkk, m'lore/dxb

    Sat, Dec 25 2021

    Nava Bharata syndrome....!!!!!

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Raheja Waterfront

    Sat, Dec 25 2021

    It's the fault of the Bank ...

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  • Vincent D'Souza, Belthangady

    Sat, Dec 25 2021

    Senior Citizens are treated like nomads

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  • Praveen, Bondel

    Sat, Dec 25 2021

    Shanbhag Sir, God Bless for your Noble Service.

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