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Mangalore: First PU girl, daughter of ASI, commits suicide

  •   Mon, Sep 01 2014 01:15:31 PM

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Daijiworld Media Network - Mangalore (DV)

Mangalore, Sep 1: A girl studying in first PUC allegedly committed suicide at her residence in Kelarai, Neermarga here on the evening of Sunday August 31.

Akshata (16), daughter of Umesh and Kamalakshi, hanged herself in her room.

Akshata's father Umesh is a personnel in the forest mobile squad while her mother is assistant sub-inspector (ASI) in Kadri police station.

It is said that on Sunday evening, Akshata's father and brother went to temple, leaving her at home as she was sleeping at the time. When they returned, they found her hanging in her room. Her mother was on duty and was informed soon after.

Sources said that Akshata's parents had taken away her mobile phone, and depressed over it, she reportedly ended her life. Another source said that she was saddened by the death of a close friend a few days ago.

A case has been registered in Kankanady rural police station.
  

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  • Disha Rita, Mangalore

    Wed, Sep 03 2014

    Oh My God !!! how to correct these children. what ever we do for their good they take it has Negative. At home Parents not supposed to correct them, in school teachers not supposed to say anything for their good!!!!!! where are we heading towards and more over now a days only one or two children we have due to both parents are working for their daily bread, good education and for better life for children and Children what they do is??????????

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  • janet, mangalore

    Tue, Sep 02 2014

    Dear Joyson,
    God has given you a beautiful life. Birth and death these are 2 facts. In between we have to live. Life is not bed of roses. It has thorns also. Whenever you feel sad or depressed remember God. Donot think you are alone. Always God is there with you. Please say rosary everyday. Mother mary will make you strong. Take care. we have only one life . Enjoy your life.

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  • nelson, mangalore

    Tue, Sep 02 2014

    OMG! where is this generation/world heading to ?

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  • Rudolf, Mumbai

    Tue, Sep 02 2014

    Another big psychological issue in this "tumultuous" world is the "copycat syndrome" in young adolescents so such type of tragic cases should not be given much coverage by media (avoid giving lucid details)!! Read the report below from archives of TOI in 2010:
    MUMBAI: Seven suicides in four days have left the city psychologists wondering if the copycat syndrome is working overtime in the minds of those harboring the tendency to kill themselves. The syndrome, specially associated with adolescents, makes one emulate others who commit suicide. Of the people who committed suicide this week, five were school children. These cases are relatively rare as compared to adult suicides. They, however, play a larger role in copycat syndrome as children are more likely to be influenced by such cases. According to head of psychological medicine of KEM Hospital, Dr Shubhangi Parkar, a string of suicides suggested that the copycat syndrome was at play. The syndrome affects a vulnerable group of people who are self-blaming, angry and passing through a phase of self-defeat, she said. In copycat syndrome, a person attempting suicide is believed to gather information from local sources or through the media. Experts say such suicides may be more common among college and school students or members of a community. In the case of children, such ideas can spell disaster. Parkar added that many children are unaware that their problems with parents can be discussed and solved. "There is a higher possibility that children will emulate other kids who have committed suicide. The way suicide cases and stories are projected in the media should be prudent,'' she said. Some experts feel that the media should stop glorifying suicide cases. "Such stories can lead youngsters to believe that their names become news if they kill themselves,'' said Dr Dr Hozefa A Bhinderwala, consultant psychiatrist, Saifee Hospital.

    The above is just for info on the effects of media on minds with suicidal ideation!!

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  • Flavian, Mangalore/Kuwait

    Tue, Sep 02 2014



    That is the age group when teens get inspired with worldly things and land themselves in the bond of friendship which gradually turns into love affair. Those who have gone through may know better.
    Too much love is too bad. Love gives but it takes more than what it offers.

    Parents should be very diplomatic in dealing with such cases. Force may make things worse.

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  • Af, mangalore

    Tue, Sep 02 2014

    Parents give some good books to read to your children, by giving mobile ,money don't think they are happy an face the present world.

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  • Darshan, Bangalore

    Tue, Sep 02 2014

    ‘TEENS AREN’T ADDICTED TO SOCIAL MEDIA OR CELL PHONE'S. THEY’RE ADDICTED TO EACH OTHER.’

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  • Alex, Mangalore

    Tue, Sep 02 2014

    The is is the modern world, completely materialistic.

    Moreover we all have become materialistic without a shred of spirituality, and concern for others.

    All of us are too busy and we have no time to love our own children and guide them.

    Last 10 years have changed so much and so fast, I dont think we can sustain another 10 years at this pace.

    This are the fruits of our own making, violence, murders, rapes, suicides and lot crime.

    I have no idea what is in store for the current generation just 10 years down the road.

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  • Anonymous, USA

    Tue, Sep 02 2014

    It is very important to pay close attention to teenagers at home and spend as much time as possible with them. Age 16 to 20 is very critical for them in this electronic age. Knowing my daughter, I quit my job four years back to be with her and was able to guide by allowing her with full freedom. She would listen to her Dad over her boy friend. Now she is able to make matured decisions and I am back to work. Family is more important than the money and false reputation in the society.

    My heartfelt condolences to the bereaved family on the loss of their precious daughter. May her soul rest in peace.

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  • albert, mangalore

    Tue, Sep 02 2014

    i had said earlier and will say again the modern technology will kill people slowly .. !! nowadays kids don't even know how to live , go out and play meet people talk have fun sports outdoors all they do is facebook watts app instagram ... i pity the modern generation .. why ? its made them last and fools n bunch of social media addicts !! there was a time people were valued and things were used .. nowadays things are valued and people are being used !!

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    Her mobile phone will have all the answers.
    May her soul RIP ...

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  • sadaf, mangalore

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    guys please stop it. she didn't hang herself for a mobile phone. there was some other trouble in her life. she was in love with a guy and he hanged himself a week back n may b thats why her parents took the cell. parents should have been supportive at this time. parents should have given her the courage of facing the world and pain inside her. parents should have not left her alone because they knew ABOUT the love and the guy hanged. im v sad over their death.its hurting. kids please dnt choose the path of suicide. instead talk to friends elders who understand you n resolve. if u have no body contact a doctor. plz dnt opt for suicide

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  • Dan, mangalore

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    Yesterday, a tenant next door had the same problem. The first year PUC girl was threatening her parents that she would jump from the terrace if they don't buy a touch phone for her which should have internet in it for which the mother was refusing. This argument was going on for weeks, till the land lord had to interfere in this quarrel and told them to vacate the house if this continues. This girl a total loser, ending her life that too for a phone.

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  • joe Gonsalves, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    Indeed a very sad episode. I join several others in offering condolences to the bereaved parents. May God give them the strength to bear this loss.

    Joe Gonsalves

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  • S.M. Nawaz Kukkikatte, Dubai

    Mon, Sep 01 2014


    Shocking committed suicide just for silly reason?
    RIP
    Smart Generation, Smart Phones, Smart Technology
    Now we really worrying for "Smart City"

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  • SURESH MAROLI, MANGALORE/BAHRAIN

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    Whatsupp ki duniya? People have no time to communicate with mother,father, relatives. Just one way traffic-Mobile.

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  • Rajani,

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    We expect youngsters to think and act rationally. But wat is happening with them? What did she give her parents for their patience,sacrifice for 16 years and in a second she has decided to suicide.Just because her phone was taken away, this is a stupid act to do.Let god give her parents strength to face this

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  • Muzaffar, Udupi

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    I was shocked to see another suicide of Young girl is ending their valuable life for silly reasons.Its a right time to implement of moral education and revise syllabus and emphasize on educating children on philosophy of life and strength them in facing challenges of life.Due to lackness of such teaching in existing system we are getting knowledge which has no lessons of life.wake up India we are imitating western way of life which is the root cause of these suicides which lead us to disaster.I am worried about next generation which is growing with cellphone in their hand who dont knwo what is right and what is wrong.

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  • vj priya sunil, mangalore

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    As I know kamala aunty's family from past 20 years...akshatha was a very silent gal...and I was shock to hear that akshatha is no more...ammi I miss u a lot....let ua soul rest in peace.

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  • avani, mlore

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    We were brought up in village in such an environment that there was no day probably we were not scolded or beaten up by our parents. But we had enough courage to live. Now what is happening with new generation? May be some amount of scolding and beating in childhood (between 5 yrs to 10 yrs) by parents and teachers makes a kid mentally strong when it grows up. Just my thinking.

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  • Gladys, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    New generation doesn't have hardship, life is easy, no beat nor correction accepted by children. all modern facilities spoil children. parents are fear of them if they take any action against them, I mean correction or punishment. So they take such drastic action.

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  • Rudolf, Mumbai

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    RIP the departed soul!!

    You are very right, today most children have not faced any challenges, hardships, punishments (for wrong deeds) etc. so they do not know the value of things and take everything for granted!! They just do not want to listen to 'NO' even after making them understand or counseling!! In such a scenario a parent is in a big dilemma and has to leave the situation status quo lest the young mind take some drastic step like that happens every other day for flimsy reasons!!

    Compare with the olden days where times were tough and children born and brought up in agricultural families, despite having gone through intense hardships and stern corporal punishment, never resorted to such acts and became very strong adults and achieved much in life!! Hence a little poverty/hardship in the formative stages which forces austerity, lets know the value of things, makes one emotionally strong and confident to face the toughest situation in life, is indeed a blessing in disguise!!

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  • Rita, Germany

    Tue, Sep 02 2014

    @ Avani Mangalore,it is not quite right what you say.Beating children is also not the solution.Instead have a good Connection between parents and children.Nowadays children are not intensive with parents attached.They are more with materials stuffed to Play,bikes or scooters instead of Walking,tvs and mobile is very very much taken place in their life.Time is come when parents dont give what their children demand,they are not ready to accept and many of them suicide.Parents are threaten and they dont know what to do.Here the Girl must have had massive heartache after the death of her friend and felt to follow.many Teenagers are not steady enough to bear the pain.Here the parents have to console them and make them steady to face the world.A missing mobile is too for some like missing friend ,they are ready to even to kill someone for it.

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  • Latif Mapal, Jeddah

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    No rape no sexual harassment recently very young grills commits suicide self more then 4 in few days very simple reason ending life…. too bad to read.this kind of accident cannot stop even

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  • Rudolf, Mumbai

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    RIP!! Materialistic and hyper emotional world, teenagers and youngsters have absolutely no patience and take spot decisions for any 'NO', not realizing that they are leaving their most loved ones in pain and distress till the end of their lives!!

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  • Joyson, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    In my life i had a number of reasons to think on committing suicide . This has happened in different stages of life like when i was a student, when was a teenager, after marriage etc. There were situations where i thought i cannot handle the situation or pressure. I cannot bear nagging and dragging anymore etc etc. I still get those thoughts but i have decided to think about some good things happening an decided to move on.

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  • Ivan, Mangalore/Mumbai

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    @Joyson You have your own medicine for the bad thoughts you are getting. psychiatrists dont have complete medicine for this (recent death of hollywood comedian. You are not only the person here, there are many other people also with you whom i know. I appreciate your craving to live at any cost. I pray that you move on forgetting the past or the temporary adjustments which you have to do in order to live in this world encouraging others to live. God almighty will help you whenever you feel let down by others. Just don't worry be happy.

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  • oswald lobo, mangalore

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    In this generation the children need more and more counseling regarding mobile, internet friendship we have to explain them its harm. parents have to use their time with them as there is any problem with children they could easily solve with their parents. now a days children get what they want and parents not going to bother about them.

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  • jeetendra hegde, mumbai

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    RIP...no word to say,news of two death of young souls in a single day...May God give enough strength to the family ,to withstand a great shock...

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  • prem, moodbidri

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    What's wrong with our young generation?
    Suicide for not getting bike, mobile, pocket money??

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  • Felix, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    It has been a rumor in social networking sites that this girl suicide because her so called boyfriend, Akash hanged the other day. Saw some youths laughing and saying death made them together. Kids, you all do not know the value of life. You end it just like that? Kamalakshi is one of the best police person in Mangalore. A well reputed in Kadri station and police department. Soft spoken, humble and down to earth. May GOD almighty give their family the strength to bear the loss. And let it be a warning for the teenagers not to take such extreme steps. RIP!

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  • Jossy Dsouza, Mangalore

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    I am deeply shocked and just cannot believe it. Just 2 days back me and my wife met Kamala Madam in Bendore near more supermarket and spoke about her children. She is a very responsible mother and was really concerned about the future of her kids and told us that she has dedicated her love and care for her kids. Sorry I just cannot write any more. God help the parents to handle this... Oh my God!

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  • stan, mangalore

    Mon, Sep 01 2014

    this is crazy...it is high time high schools / colleges teach students realities / beauties of life in a more practical manner...

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