Mangaluru: Woman lives in solitude for 15 years following tragedy, rescued


Mohan Kuthar
Daijiworld Media Network - Mangaluru (SP)

Mangaluru, Mar 8: A girl who grew in solitary confinement after losing mental balance due to a catastrophe which took away the life of her dear sister, has grown into a woman during the last 15 years. A team led by BJP zilla panchayat member representing Someshwar constituency here, Dhanalakshmi, visited her home on Monday March 7, brought out the woman from the dingy and dark environs of her room, and admitted her into rehabilitation centre. It is hoped that she will regain her health both physical and mental, and join the mainstream.

Beena and Anusha were the children of Gopal and Swarnalata couple from Kulur here. In course of time, Swarnalata began to live along with her two daughters, with her mother Jalajakshi, living near Someshwar railway gate. 

Anusha was a student of St Ann's English Medium School in the city. On the fateful day of January 21, 2000, as many as 247 students of the school had been led to Pilikula Nisargadhama on a trip by school authorities. During this trip, a boat carrying 23 students capsized in the pond at Pilikula. 18 were rescued, but five students, Anusha K, Ashwini, Sushma Nayana, Rovina Vaz and Prajn drowned in the pond.

This catastrophe shocked Beena, who was very close to her younger sister. Her communication with friends and family members gradually declined. Within a year, Beena, who was in SSLC then, lost her mental balance, and began to toss things around and even attack her mother without reason. As both her mother and grandmother found it impossible to calm her down, and her temper tantrums continued, they admitted Beena into Father Muller Medical Hospital for treatment. However, treatment failed to improve her condition, and it was impossible to arrange for stay of a person with Beena at the hospital. Therefore, she was got discharged and brought back home. Beena continued her violent behavior, after which she was admitted into a private hospital at Deralakatte. As the situation did not improve there too, Beena was brought back, and finding it impossible to control her, was confined to a room. Beena was provided food and other necessities within the confines of her room thereafter.

During the door to door visit as part of election campaign, BJP candidate from Someshwar constituency, Dhanalakshmi and a team of BJP activists accompanying her noticed the pitiable condition of Beena. During this visit, Dhalakshmi promised the family to get Beena admitted into rehabilitation centre. To meet this promise, Dhanalakshmi and several BJP activists visited the home of Beena, who is 29 now, pacified her, and admitted her into Paschim Rihab rehabilitation centre at Nehru Nagar, after taking her in a car belonging to Rajesh Uchchil, president of Someshwar panchayat.

The family belongs to Mogaveera community. None of the organizations had come forward to help the distressed family so far. Both Beena's mother and grandmother are sick and they are unable to look after Beena. Economically too the family is in a crisis. Locals feel that relatives of the family and leaders from the community should come forward to help the family and to give Beena a new lease of life.

Zilla panchayat former vice president, Satish Kumpala, block BJP president, Chandrashekhar Uchchil, Someshwar gram panchayat president, Rajesh Uchchil, taluk panchayat member, Ravishankar, and some other people were present during the said visit.

Paschim Rihab rehabilitation centre representatives said that they are happy at the fact that people's representatives took initiative to bring a mentally unsound girl out of her confinement and admitted her here. They expressed confidence about being able to improve her health condition, noting that such patients show dramatic improvement when they get proper treatment. Director of the centre, Rohit, said that the centre stands to serve not only patients with psychological problems, but also others.

Dhanalakshmi said that her eyes welled with tears when she came across the helpless condition of the family and Beena during electioneering. "Both the aged women were not in a position to care for Beena. Being a social worker, I knew about the people running this rehabilitation centre. I held discussions with them, and after they agreed, got Beena out of her room and admitted her here," she explained.

  

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  • Maurice Menezes, udu

    Wed, Mar 09 2016

    May God bless the good samaritans for the noble humanitarian deed.

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  • jesse, mangalore/ireland

    Wed, Mar 09 2016

    You believe it or not I don't care. But I am sure beena needs inner healing. There is no cure or medical sciences help for inner wounds. Only prayers will help. She has to be taken to a good counsellor. And she herself should forgive for those who r responsible for her sisters death.

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  • Anp, Blur

    Wed, Mar 09 2016

    GIVING HANDS
    ARE BETTER THAN
    PRAYING LIPS ,

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  • Evans Christopher Sumitra, UDUPI/NEW YORK,USA.

    Wed, Mar 09 2016

    A very sad incident and hard to digest. Where were all the good samaritans when this women was going through this turmoil. I hope that she gets all the help and get get out of this tragedy which she went through in the last 15 years.

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  • Prakash Naik, Kundapur, Muscat

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    It is disgusting that most of the commentators are just using their political sense than humanitarian sense. No point asking XYZ or blaming XYZ. Being a Citizen of this country and feeling a sense of responsibility, please think of how can we help. If all of us can contribute even Rs.1000/- each also, it will be a significant amount that will help in the rehabilitation and treatment of this young woman, who is suffering for no fault of hers.

    Having said that can I request Daijiworld to give us her or her family account details. Thank you.

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  • Thomas Scaria, Mangalore, Colombo

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    People's representatives have done their job, but it is the turn of the Paschin Trust now. I appreciate Rohit who admits several such cases in his rehab center, without expecting any financial return form many such hapless people. But the center requires more resources to help such helpless people. Hope political leaders also come forward to support such institutions with funds. Kudos to Rohit and team!

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  • Ebrahim, Uchila

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    Mangalore is famous for many organizations but from last 15 years no one is noticed the family who is living like a hell its really shocking. Our politicians and ministers are good for nothing.

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  • Rita, Germany

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    @Ebrahim ,Uchila,dear br,do you expect that Ministers and politiians go to door to door and see which sick Person is hidig,suffering here?even atthis time ,you dont know mostly who is your neighbour, and what is he doing.when neighbours or area organiatons,priest of any religions dont know of such tragody persons or inform somebody,can happen so.But now god someone took interest ad do something,in fture let us ot blame others but ourelves.

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  • P.Shirish Kumnar , Mangalore

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    Rita madam, you are right.

    Now let us think of helping this poor family instead of blaming each other & wasting time.

    Can we help this Girl's family on humanitarian ground directly or through Daiji?

    Let us see how many of us have real feelings for the poor & needy persons, or only people post comments here for time pass.

    Today if we think of helping others, tomorrow other may think of helping us in case of emergency.

    Janatha Seveye Janardhana Sevey.

    Serving needy persons is same as to serving for God.

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  • shuba, mumbai

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    Good work which is really appreciated

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  • Jacob, manipal

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    God has saved her, and God has provided her help through these people.
    God will help her to come out of her problem if we pray and so we will pray for her speedy recovery.

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  • Anp, Blur

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    Was shocked when this tragedy took place, more shocked now t o know the nuns who have moral responsibility in this tragedy including the officials of Pilikulla did not follow up with the victim of this tragedy.
    Being a student of the school , the school should have followed up and also the govt. officials.
    Regular visits would have not resulted in this .

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  • nazeer Husain, jeddah saudi Arabi

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    Bjp like this should show its parental chaddi organisation that what actually social service means.Give the helping hand to the suufferrers which highly rewardable work in here and hereafter.

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  • Gangaram, Moodbidri

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    Everything is possible for Almighty......

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  • Anp, Bluru

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    Except save her sister from death. Think and comment dont just babble what you have heard,

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  • Gangaram, Moodbidri

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    If you beleave!!! God has his own plans to bring his people to his fold.

    nimmatha Nastikarannu Devaru kapaduthare Sir....

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  • Sachidanand Shetty, Mundkur/Dubai

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    Many Leaders make many promises during election campaign and then they forget for next 5 years and again they come back for begging!!!! But Madam Dhanalakshmi kept her promise alive and we need to appreciate the good work of her team members too…..

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  • SK, Mangalore

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    Modi is the classic example of throwing the promises in to air.......

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  • Rayan, Mangaluru

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    From where did Modi come in this matter...

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  • SK, Mangalore

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    the answer is in the comments of Mr Mundkur Shetty

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  • HENRY MISQUITH, Bahrain

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    A big round of applause for Dhanalaxmi. Get well soon Beena, God bless.

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  • Alex Menezes, Karkala/Dubai

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    Well Done Madam Dhanalaxmi. As an elected representative, I appreciate and commend for keeping up your promise to the poor family. People like you are very rare in today's political circle and I wish you all the best and bright future in politics. This act of kindness on a fellow woman is indeed an act of humanitarian and is appreciated by all of us.

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  • Jossey Saldanha, Mumbai

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    On this Woman's day let us do something for YASHODHABEN ...

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  • Jayanth, Mangalore

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    Mr. Jossey I really feel pity on you, instead of greeting, you still talking politics. Very poor thinking

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  • Vinod, Manipal

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    So sad. I remember this incident very well. One of my relative who was also a student, part of this trip witnessed this incident in 2000. She too had been in depression for some time. One of the deceased Rovina was from our church. So sad.
    Hope Beena recovers soon. Prayers.

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  • suhail, udp/dxb

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    good work done by Dhanalakshmi and team. she kept her promise...May Allah SWT cure beena's illness and give her better life

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  • Mohammed Ilyas Byndoor/Dubai.U.A.E, Byndoor/Dubai.U.A.E

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    Solid initiative., keep it up., like such case are there in around kindly try to help them.,

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  • K M Prasad, Mangalore

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    Well done Dhanalaxmi madam. Kudos to you and your like minded associates. You are worthy and exemplary as a people's representative.Wish a speedy recovery of the girl Beena.

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  • Ashwin, Bangalore

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    Tragic! Anusha drowned but Beena tripped into the mouth of madness. Hopefully, light enters her life.

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  • Anuj Nayan, Udupi/Mangalore

    Tue, Mar 08 2016

    Good Work... Keep it Up..
    Let your party as well as its other branches learn from this....

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