Udupi: Another Suicide - Cousins in Love End Lives


Daijiworld Media Network - Udupi

Udupi, Apr 17: In yet another case of suicide, a couple in love allegedly took their own lives at Shambhavi river, Hejamady here.

The deceased have been identified as Dinesh (17) and Vanita (18). The incident took place on Monday April 16. Both were children of government employees.





Sources said that Dinesh, son of Tukaram, and Vanita, daughter of Sundara, allegedly jumped into the river for fear that their families would not allow their union. It is said that Vanita's family members were aware of their liking for each other. It is said that she was apprehensive that age may come in the way of her marriage with Dinesh who was younger to her.

Both belonged to Koraga community and were in fact cousins. Sources said that Vanita's family was looking for a groom for her.

They went missing on Saturday but were expected to return home. However, their bodies were found later in the river, one on Monday night and another on Tuesday April 17 morning.

Apart from Vanita, Sundara has four sons and a daughter. Dinesh was the youngest among Tukaram's sons.

Dinesh, whose parents, Vasanti and Tukaram, worked as civic workers for Yermal gram panchayat, was employed at Kediyoor Hotel in Udupi. He had completed SSLC, and used to commute to his work place daily from his home. On Saturday, he called his family over his mobile phone, telling them that he would be visiting a relative at Mallar village that day. When the family tried to contact him over phone thereafter, his mobile phone was found to have been switched off.

Vanita was the daughter of Dinesh’s maternal uncle, who works as civic worker for Padubidri gram panchayat. She had abandoned her studies after finding the science subjects she had opted for in the first PU class proved too difficult. She had left home on Saturday, telling her mother that she wanted to get a dress stitched for her. For this purpose, she had collected clothes from her mother, and had borrowed Rs 100 from her younger brother.

Many had seen the couple loitering around the beach at Hejmady Kody since the last two days. On Monday evening, they were sighted near Mulky Bridge. Some said at dusk they moved closer to the estuary of Shambhavi river and stayed put outside the compound of a house there. At around 10.15 pm, Harish, who resides in nearby house, came out after hearing some sound. On seeing him, the couple started to run, and did not stop even after Harish warned that there was rivulet ahead. They reportedly said before jumping into the rivulet, that they had told their families, and that they are afraid of being caught by the police.

Dinesh’s body was recovered at around midnight, while Vanita’s body was found deposited on the banks of Shambhavi river on Tuesday morning. The fact that the wrist watch worn by Vanita had stopped at 10.20 proved that the couple had jumped into the river at that time, while a slip with the words, ‘Dinesh Weds Vanita’ was found in the pants pocket of Dinesh. The police found it hard to establish the identities of the couple for long. The parents of the two, who visited the mortuary at the hospital in the afternoon after hearing about the recovery of two bodies, identified them.

Post mortem was conducted at Padubidri primary health centre. Station house officer of Padubidri station, Mahadeva Setti, has registered a case and taken up investigation.

Cases of suicide have been increasing in the coastal region over the past few weeks. From students to lovers to young children, the spate of suicide cases has cast a shadow of gloom in the region.

  

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  • R.Bhandarkar., M

    Thu, Apr 19 2012

    Irene n Jaimini
    Love at first 'blind's
    Then sorts of 'bind's
    Soon blow the 'wind's
    Which shake even your 'behind's'!

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  • Evans Christopher Sumitra, Udupi/New York, USA

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    Love is not blind but both became blind and blindly committed suicide by jumping into the Shambhavi River. May their souls rest in eternal peace and give comfort to the bereaved families and friends.It is very tragic that both had to end their lives at this young age.

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  • Jaimini P.B., Manipal,Sharjah

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    Dear Irene,Mumbai..THE BEST QUOTE..Love is not blind,but lovers are blind..

    DisAgree [3] Agree [9] Reply Report Abuse

  • Vijay, Madanthyar/Kuwait

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    Love at any time changes its way. It may blast,It may Twist, It may Cool down & it may Roll Down!!!

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  • sr.agnesia, Shubhada suralpady

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    dear mr i d souza its the way u r brought up at home that matters.Parents have a great way to journey along their childrens life all along than just earning daily bread....

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  • I DOUZA, M'LORE/KUWAIT

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    i think after some years real siblings will fell in love. Now a days no value for relationship.so in school & colleges some good counselling is must.

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  • paddu, mangalore

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    Both are in 17 & 18 yrs.what type of love it is?..

    Boda love mukulege??

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  • irene, mumbai

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    love is not blind lovers are blind.

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  • S.M. Nawaz Kukkikatte, udupi

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    Parents love is very important for blessing in-between boy friend and girl friend teenage love. "Love" is everything for future life.. but not for end life. R.I.P

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  • Rakesh shetty, mangalore

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    VERY BAD. PARENTS ARE MAIN RESPONSIBLE FOR THIS. THEY SHOULD TAKE CAR THEIR CHILDREN IN WAYS.

    DisAgree [58] Agree [6] Reply Report Abuse

  • RAM, IPL

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    Love is blind , It has no end ,So dont loose ur heart.  Be strong one day u get u dream girl mark my words
    RAM
    IPL

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  • Neeraj Fernandes, Mangalore

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    Feels like there is no value for Cousin relations now a days. Cousin's relationship is just like bro and sister relationship. Now a days there is no meaning for such relationships and start loving each other in other way which is not bro sister love. Cousin should love as a brother and sister and not to marry. Is this indian culture marrying a brother or sister?

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  • santhosh, mangaloe

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    Those who dont obey family culture better face public opinion, other wise this thing happens no regret at all for their death

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  • N. V. , YEKKAR,, PERMUDE

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    ಪ್ರೀತಿ ಕುರುಡು
    ಪ್ರೀತಿಯು ಮರುಳು
    ಪ್ರೀತಿಯ ಅರ್ಥ ಗೊತ್ಹಿಲ್ಲದವರು
    ಅತ್ಹ್ಮಹಥೆ ಮಾಡುತಾರೆ
    ಆಧರೆ ಕೆಲವರು
    ಹತ್ಹು ಹದಿನೆರಡು ಹುಡುಗಿಯರಿಗೆ
    ಮಂಗ ಮಾಡಿ ಒಂದು ದಿವಸ
    ಸಮಾಜದಿಂದ ಗೂಸ ತಿನ್ನುತಾರೆ

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  • Gerald, modankap-bantval

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    THE CURSE HAUNTING IN A DIFFERENT WAYS !!!! R.I.P

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  • ISMAIL.K.PERINJE, PERINJE-YANBU/KSA

    Wed, Apr 18 2012

    If they dare to love each other then why don't love life?I mean this kind of hypocrite nothing but foolishness and stupidity.May souls rest in peace.

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  • Ted, Mangalore

    Tue, Apr 17 2012

    This is a direct result of communication gap between Parents and Children.....

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  • chinnu, bangalore

    Tue, Apr 17 2012

    It's so sad,now days any thing can happen and later afraid of culture they took drastic step, many incidents in adults particulary siblings not come to public becasue of mutual understanding and modern comfort & luxury living. This is trend going on even some of excamples are existed that after crossing 19 own brother and sister keeping physical relation then once marraige get settle they live seperately with new partners, if need they keep ofenly enjoy. now a days in middle class families also started. due to easy fashionated to fast things like food,dresses so in young age loosing culture. some times the reason that afraid of family reputation they remain far from outside love i mean love with outsiders, even we can see now days many examples keeping short term relation in the name partners live meet and giving name for mental emotional support being single living. Only thing to watch and see how these life moving

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